He asked me the other day if he should check me at my house, my response was: What were you planning to do??
He got pissed and said i did not answer him properly, why didnt i just say Yes or No, he has cheated on me before and we worked it out.
Now i'm wondering if he's going back to seeing the woman again cause he called again to say he's not coming anymore because i did not talk or respond to him properly.
My question is Did he really want to see me or he had other plans and was just trying to come up with an excuse of not wanting to see me coz i pissed him off??
We just turned a year together and really he's not improving on some of the things we had talked about.
2007-10-21 23:14:41 · 11 answers · asked by Phenomenal woman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys, he just email me this songs:
1. Love and Happiness by Marc Broussard
2. Love me Like The World is ending by Ben Lee
I feel thats so sweet of him.. . . . . !
2007-10-22 02:11:25 · update #1
If I was cheating I would wanna know where you were at all times. I need to know this cause if I'm with someone else then I need to make sure you are not where I am going to be.
If he seems more interested in where you are going together than what you are doing together That's a big sign.
I hate indirect answeres or asweres that are questions. Guys are pretty simple. By you asking him what he was planning on doing you are setting him up to give the wrong answere. He knows this and by getting mad at you he doesn't have to answere the question wrong/right.
Be direct when you can be. Save the "between the lines" questions/answeres for specific things like "is he cheating on me"
If he's cheating on you he probably will be nicer to you. And do things for you that he normally wouldn't And your relationship will probably seem better.
2007-10-21 23:24:37 · answer #1 · answered by Dan E 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He was playing a game with you. Dump him. He is cheating on you. Anyone that can turn what you said into a problem is a jerk anyway. He has cheated before and he will again even if it isn't right now. Why are you wasting your young years with a man that disrespects you. You can't get those years back girl!! You are letting him take the best years of your life. Kick him to the curb.
2007-10-21 23:25:14 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he wants you and her and knows he can't have it. I still believe once a cheater always a cheater. Drop the bum. Respond properly is definitely a way to get away. He was trying to pick an argument so he could get out. Common practice of cheaters. You know this down deep. If after a year he hasn't made the grade, more time will not help.
2007-10-21 23:26:15 · answer #3 · answered by Jodi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you are slowly losing him. He may be there but his mind is slowly flying off either to a new nest, or just swooping the skies. Time to think if there is hope and if there isn't, end it before you find yourself to desperate to leave. If you still have that much love in you and he does the same, then talk and fix it. But you can't fix what has already been broken or has no intention of getting fixed.
2007-10-21 23:49:35 · answer #4 · answered by Storm Shadow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand your question - so maybe communication is an issue in your relationship!
Seriously, reading between the lines, there is too much doubt and a lack of trust in your relationship so, although it may have a long term future, it wouldn't be a future of anything other than doubt and fear, instead of happiness.
Finish it, and move on with your life, before you get stuck in this and become unable to get out.
2007-10-21 23:23:24 · answer #5 · answered by Paul M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've only been together for a year and already he's cheated on you and you've got a lot of issues that you've had to have discussions about, then I doubt that this relationship has much future. From your description, it doesn't look like it's going anywhere, but it does sound like you'd have more fun if you were single.
2007-10-21 23:25:40 · answer #6 · answered by Blink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing kinda happened with me and my gf. i had messed up in the past, and then we cleared it up. Sometimes she says something kind of weird, where i think she's accusing me of cheating and i get real made and defensive. maybe he is doing the same thing. I find that the best way to stop all that nonsense is to just talk it out (calmly) and then just let all your caution go, and trust eachother like 96% haha. good luck
2007-10-21 23:26:30 · answer #7 · answered by xderekjeromex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He picked a fight with you to have an excuse to not come over. Sit back and stop pushing the relationship. Something is up.
2007-10-21 23:24:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest,i think he meant exactly what he said.if he told you that you did not respond to him well,he means just that and probably expects you to give him an apology.if you did not,that is probably the reason why he did not show up.so swallow your pride and apologise to patch things up.
2007-10-21 23:31:37 · answer #9 · answered by H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's looking for an excuse to break up. DUMP his sorry butt. You've wasted enough time on this immature "boy".
2007-10-21 23:38:25 · answer #10 · answered by Meg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋