This guy I met last new years in LA came to my city and planned to see me and his sister. For three days we dated, kissed, held hands and I took him around the sights. He kept asking me "what are you thinking" and i gave no answer. I was scared of being hurt by the distance and left him on the third day with a cold wave at the train station. The next day my understanding was that he needed family time and we would meet again before he left (the 5th day) and i didn't contact him until the following evening when i found out he had changed his flight to leave very early rather than that evening. Never heard back. What did i do wrong?
2007-10-21 22:45:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not going to put the blame on the guy entirely.
Maybe if you were a bit more open he would have stayed in contact. Don't keep guys that you are attracted to at arm's length. They will never get to know the real you and appreciate you. I am not saying to be an open book on the first conversation but don't hold back too much.
Also, it seems that he was not really interested in getting into a relationship. If he had been, he wouldn't have given up so quickly.
2007-10-21 22:52:15 · answer #1 · answered by Brianna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-07 09:24:40 · answer #2 · answered by wilfrid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think nothing. I feel that he could have called you also and let you know. Relationships are two way streets. It sounds as if he wants you to do most of the work. You can email him and tell him you had a nice time and miss him etc... but try not to sound too needy and give him the option of calling you when he is ready.
2007-10-21 22:54:06 · answer #3 · answered by bssd12000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didnt do anything wrong--you do not have any idea about this guy, and I would not put a lot of my emotions into someone who was just passing thru. I suspect he was traveling, getting his thoughts together---not a good sign that he left early----it's not you, it's him. If I could give advice, dont wear your emotions on your shirt sleeve--give those to someone who lets you know it will stick around.
2007-10-21 22:54:32 · answer #4 · answered by skyward 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"left him with a cold wave on the station?" What does this mean?, and why didn't you give him answer? Could be the reason he ran..sounds complicated to me.
2007-10-21 23:05:13 · answer #5 · answered by Joey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably just felt it was not something he wanted to start. At least he broke it off before leading you on further and then hurting you. Then again, don't give up hope. You may hear back from him again!
2007-10-21 22:53:08 · answer #6 · answered by WonderGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh lady dpnt be disappointed there is always a reason for everything,,don't jump into conclusion yet..wait for sometime, you can't judge him like that..if you have to wait then wait, but if he doesn't get in touch with you anymore, it means he wasn't impressed by you or maybe he himself felt awkward to you when you didn't answer to his questions, ok???meanwhile relaxxxx.....................not the end of the world yet~
2007-10-21 23:03:33 · answer #7 · answered by E@rthGoddess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have interpreted your actions as not being interested in him, or he may have decided that he was no longer interested in you. Call him, and ask him. The worst that can happen is that he says he did not feel a connection between you.
2007-10-21 22:51:20 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes a jerk. who knows with guys they are weird its not you.. its good you didnt open up to much to him always leave mystery and play hard to get.. hes obviously emotionallly immature and if anything rude. think about it it doesnt matter who it is you still took him around town .he can at least say thank you
2007-10-21 22:58:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he didn't get what he was really after. Give up onthe guy and move on.
2007-10-21 23:21:50 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋