I met this guy he is a Nigerian footballer name Fly works in Cambodia and we hv bin dating for sometime now. Last nite, I saw a text message on his phone, one of his friends told him that he had hurt a lady feelings, name Lyna. Lyna is asking why does Fly hv to play with her feelings and if Fly love her, y does he hv to leave her and marry someone else. Then I check on his digi cam,I saw a picture of him with one lady in a hotel room in Manila, whereby he is topless, the lady fully dress hug and taking photos.
Now I am wondering if this man that I hv been dating is being sincere to me or is he getting married somewhere else. I spent time with him over the weekend. I asked him....."are you playing with my feelings?".Fly reply "NO" and at the airport, i ask him, are you dating other ladies beside me. Fly reply "WHERE?" I answer "Anywhere". Fly said " No baby I am not. U R D only one and I am not those type of man" . He is gentle and never treat me bad but CAN I TRUST THIS MAN???
2007-10-21 22:33:32 · 12 answers · asked by abonoyah 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If there were pictures of him and other women and text messages from other women or about other women.......
UH NO............you cannot trust FLY!!!!!!!!!!!!
SORRY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-21 22:40:53 · answer #1 · answered by Optimistic1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you chat online? If so you can pretend to be someone else. Create a new name a new profile and then talk to him. Theoretically he should like your new you because you are still you but he does not know that. If you see that he starts acting like he should not then you have your answer. If he is honest there will be no problem.
Why do I say this it is because I met a man online he lived in another country and all of a sudden he wanted to marry me. I wanted to trust him but had no way of knowing. So I did what I just told you to do. I am now married to him and living in that country with him. One thing though NEVER EVER TELL HIM. Unless of course you catch him. But if he is honest then there is no need to let on. However my question is that he asked you Where? It was not an immediate no. So... Just try to check it out.
2007-10-21 22:39:54 · answer #2 · answered by bssd12000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In any language or in any country--this guy is a cheating creep--playing you while he is in town--you saw it for yourself--why go any further with this idiot?? You are delaying the inevitable--it is only a matter of time and you already have no trust--do you really think it will get better?? Get a grip and a real local stay at home man that you can trust.
2007-10-21 22:39:14 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him who Lyna is. He may have broken up with her for you, or he could be cheating. It is hard to know which.
Men seem to separate love and sex. They will have sex with anyone, but they fall in love with someone special. Some of them think that as long as they only love one, they can have sex with others too. That doesn't work for me, but some women put up with it.
I would do some serious investigation before marrying this guy.
2007-10-21 22:43:44 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not get married because of your own doubts. Regardless of the evidence you have found (snooping isn't nice by the way) you do not trust him enough to get married. Trust helps a relationship last and can quickly ruin a relationship if it becomes tainted or doesn't exist at all. I know you asked him straight for an answer and he gave one, but if you are asking others for an answer then you really don't trust him.
2007-10-21 22:39:26 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Absolutley, how could you reside with your self in case you probably did no longer something. record them to the ASPCA or Humane Society on your area. doggies might desire to stay with the clutter for a minimum of 8 weeks. At 4 weeks they are actually not even completely weaned yet and besides, from 4-10 weeks with the clutter is while they learn how to socialise (play) and that all of them sleep curled up at the same time for protection.
2016-10-04 08:20:02 · answer #6 · answered by lutz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its suss as well, try and get her number and ask her maybe. if you think he's messing around with you then you deserve to know. but its even worse if he's messing around on him fiance, she deserves to know more than you if thats the case.
but no i dont think you can trust men that have to work like that, go with what you head tells you and if you think he's going to break your heart then chances are he probably will. get out of the situation before you get deeper for this boy.
but good luck girl...
2007-10-21 22:40:13 · answer #7 · answered by Malibu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this scenario, it would be natural for you to plot things..but, if you are indeed serious about this relationship, ask him. When i meant by asking, no riddles and underlying meanings, ask him directly about it. Guys dont like to be doubted of their trust, and if you taunt it, it would get ugly..seriously..
Just ask him about the truth, simple and plain.
2007-10-21 22:40:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to follow you frist mind if you dont trust him there is a reason and if it is that strong then you need to leave it alone a women has a gife to know when something is wrong you better hear what it is trying to tell you.
2007-10-21 22:44:13 · answer #9 · answered by sweetonne22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if you want a sincere man for you stay far from football players.
2007-10-21 22:38:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust on your instinct... you can sense when he's just playing around... if you feel uncomfortable and bothered by the text and the photo you saw from his digicam, that means something girl... don't be fooled and stupid...
2007-10-21 22:46:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋