There is a girl, which is a good friend of mine. I've been in love with this girl for 4 years, I mean truely. Well recently I let her know of it, and I recieved a favorable responce. Another friend of ours that doesn't know that she used to "talk" to was flirting with her again. I mean really like pulling her to him. I was "heated" I mean pissed, and ready to have it out. Of course it took no time for her to find out why I was upset. I remained upset for most of that day and the next despite other efforts.
But the thing is I'm not her boyfriend, which makes me feel silly for being so upset. But I need to find out how and what to say to her. I mean I am sure something will come naturally but, any suggestions might help progress. Feel free to talk about the situation too.
2007-10-21 21:07:38 · 18 answers · asked by Remus L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Fancy coming out on a date? is a good place to start. Good Luck
xx
2007-10-21 21:10:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just act like you always do with her and talk to her like you always do. She knows how you feel about her so now the ball is in her court. If she likes you the way you like her, she'll let you know. If she lets the other guy flirt and touch her, then she's not ready to settle into a relationship. Showing her that you're a jealous fool isn't going to help you at all. She may think that you're too possessive and it may scare her. Take control of your emotions and remain calm.
2007-10-22 04:13:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's how you communicate, lay down to her what you feel and be flat out sincere with your intention. though there is always a risk of doin this. but the bottom line is you don't have to know if the girl is ok or not as long as you love her. don't get piss off or it might be a minus point for you. believe me.. the more you do this.. it will also reflect a good character in you..
goodluck dude... ^_^
2007-10-22 04:21:02 · answer #3 · answered by miguel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were really "truely in love" with this girl you would not be wanting to own her, like she is some piece of property. So what if someone is flirting with her, big deal. You have no claim on her, what you should do is apologize to her for being such a jerk, grow up and be the friend she wants you to be.
2007-10-22 04:12:32 · answer #4 · answered by Wiz 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay. now that is stupid. firstly u love her. secondly u didnt tell her 4 four years. Thirdly u tell her after all that and finally u r angry wen some guy flirts with her.!
Dude. that is So not CoOl. even if she wud av truly loved u b4 she wud av totaly forgot u by NOW!!
This is wat u need to do. hang out with her not too often. Every time wen the "GUY" makes his move on her WAIT. wen he is finished u make fun out of the way he flirted.. NOT *FUN*. make a joke out of it. dont let anythin get u upset o jealous. Insecurity always ends in vain. ..
Girls love secrets. so tell her some of the "secrets" not secrets. thy feel so importent wen they r trusted upon. jst go calm and dont track her o b on her all day.
BE scarce. u wud b demanded more if u r.. and make her want ur help, make her want to take to u (DONT TALK TOO MUCH) make her want everythin of u (dont give out too much).
Dont give her everythin u av b4 she asks. wen she ask for it jst give little.><
scarcity may b the economic prob but wen it cums to LOVE and relationships it is the solution.
GUD LUCK
2007-10-22 04:21:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is talk to her, let her know what you feel for her, that you feel jealous with that other guy, you also said that recently you let her know that you're in love with her and she gave a favorable response, so don't be afraid to talk to her of what you feel, by then you'll feel better. so let it out:)
2007-10-22 04:28:19 · answer #6 · answered by gee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should say sorry for acting like you did. Just explain that you really like her and find it hard when other guys flirt with her. But really you have no right to be mad. why havent u asked her out yet?
2007-10-22 04:10:55 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ MISS YELLOW DIAMOND★☺♀ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to her about it and get things cleared up - ask her if she feels the same way about you (or at least likes you!) and ask her out :D
2007-10-22 05:28:38 · answer #8 · answered by ForeverAnAngel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to the girl that you have romantic feelings for her and that you would like to be her boyfriend, that you are protective or her. Let it go from there.
2007-10-22 04:11:55 · answer #9 · answered by Natasha U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just apologize for what you did and admit that it wasn't appropriate. Tell her that you did it because you really like her, but you know that it wasn't right. Good Luck, you'll be fine
2007-10-22 04:13:51 · answer #10 · answered by Lana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋