I dont want to tell anyone and i just got date rape or whatever it is called. I cannot stop crying and i am?
feeling dirty. OH god please someone help me......oh god ,,,,maybe it was my fault too but i kept saying no and resisiting ....he was like "if a girl says no it means yes".......oh god plz someone help me....plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz....**** **** .....i cannot stop crying. I dont want to tell anyone.
2007-10-21 20:53:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
OMG purple! You really need to tell someone! I know its hard to tell something like this but it is a better way to deal with it than closing it up inside. It makes me mad that men think they can do these things and get away with it or when you do turn them in all they get is a darn slap on the wrist. I hope you get through this ordeal and if you need to talk just email. How are the rape laws in your country?
2007-10-22 06:14:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the other ans. you did not do anything wrong... you need to report it, he will do this to someone else also. Can you live with that? You need to go to the Er and get checked ... you could also have gotton pregnant... if it is classifed as rape, which this was, I think they will give a pill that will stop the pregnacy before you even know it. This is a terrible time for you, but I think you need to tell your mother. they know the proper things to do and she will stand beside you and make it less scary...give you someone to lean on. If you truly don't think your mother would "be there for you" then call some other adult that you trust. But I am afraid the Er will probably make you have one parent there before treating you, if you are underage. I wish you the best.
2007-10-21 21:13:29 · answer #2 · answered by Donna B 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry that such a horrible thing happened to you but you have to tell the authorities that you have been raped. The guy who did this to you shouldn't be out there offending more girls. He should be stopped and reporting it will help put to his crimes to an end.
You've got to seek medical help my dear. You may not know it, you might have physical injuries or have gotten some STD.
Help yourself purple. Talk to someone about this.
A Parent, a relative or someone you are most open and comfortable with. That person will go with you thru all the process.
My prayers for you purple. God be with you and guide you.
2007-10-21 21:13:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Men are ignorant on this, they have no idea the damage that such an act causes, I'm very sorry that this had to happen to you.
I'm also sorry to tell you that I think you need to go to emergency and you need to talk to someone about this. I hope you are able to help prevent this person from ever doing that to anyone else, but whether you are able to, or not, speak to someone at least for yourself.
What you must not do is bury this, blaming yourself because that will allow this man to affect your life for a long time in a very negative way. You want to get over this and learn the lesson that was meant to be learned. Perhaps (and I'm not blaming you) but perhaps the lesson is to be cautious about who you are alone with.
It is possible that this happened to you to cause you to review your life and possibly save you from something more dangerous down the road...........All things that we experience are life lessons to somehow help us in the future if we will only learn from each experience.
Please do, go and get checked out. Talk to someone about this who can be kind and compassionate and help you get through this traumatic event. (and remember, you are not alone in this......many girls and women have sufferred the same fate, some get over it, others allow themselves to be scarred for life, please, don't do that)!
2007-10-21 22:46:57 · answer #4 · answered by susandorey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mydear PURPLE, First U invite the trouble n than say I don't want this.What's the matter? Either U like it or not.B practical.If u like it don't feel guilt of it. Let it happen, whatever has happened.U cried or not, If u like it it's o.k.If u didn't like it, even it is o.k.bcauseU invited it. So, don't cry. Better keep mum.I want to read something good from u next time.I lov u always.
2016-05-24 03:15:40 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police and tell them. They need to go after this person and they will get you in touch with someone who could be a support through this process.
2007-10-27 06:15:10 · answer #6 · answered by Simmi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell someone. I am so sorry that you went through this. If you need to talk, there are resources available for you. You need to talk to a counselor, or a psychologist. You need to get checked out by forensics people in case you change your mind and want to press charges. He will do it again to someone else.
2007-10-21 20:57:06 · answer #7 · answered by TheADvoKate 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Go to the hospital and get checked out. You could be injured internally. At the very least you can talk to a counselor. What if he does this to someone else?
2007-10-21 20:56:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious he doesn't care about you at all or he would just did what it took to make you feel comfortable. You need to eventually tell someone, and get help. What he did was wrong.
2007-10-21 21:05:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
aww...sorry, first thing to do is to tell this to your family they should be alarmed what happened to you! second go to hospotal and have some check (sorry to say, but if you got date raped) you may be preggy or hurt you that bad. third, got some help from doctors and go have counseling they would help you. fourth, be ready what to happened and forget those things what happened that day, i know they took your virginity but please be strong have some good faith with God :)
2007-10-21 23:32:00 · answer #10 · answered by prickHEADnCRAZY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋