2007-10-21 20:47:02 · 11 answers · asked by ernest h 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
give yourself time to grieve, sorry to hear of your loss
2007-10-21 20:49:18 · answer #1 · answered by Diane 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
At the risk of seeming unfeeling... What about Friday makes it more important than any other day? I mean, would it be somehow different if the death occurred on, say, Wednesday?
How you deal with it depends a great deal on how you felt about the person involved. Just remember, though, that your life will continue - as will the lives of all others who knew/loved the person who has died. You are not the only one who has to "deal with it" - so be supportive of the others.
Share in THEIR grief, and they will share in yours.
2007-10-22 04:14:09 · answer #2 · answered by archerdude 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the grieving process has just begun..you probably still don't believe it..it will be followed by anger, sadness and acceptance. just realize that no matter what religion, creed, age. we all miss and long for the people who make an impact on our lives. It is a part of the human connection, experience. remember to breathe and be thankful for the time you had with them. We all have our ways to deal and you will find your own..I try to remember with an open grateful heart. heal fast and don't forget it is okay to feel. It is why we are here.
2007-10-22 03:54:03 · answer #3 · answered by sandra t 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't hold it in, and don't be alone...talk with others that knew and liked the person..it will help you and them as well.
I lsot my best friend from high school two years ago (we were like brothers) so I know you're gonna miss that person...now and everytime you do something that they used to do...it will get easier with time...but time does seem to drag by at first. Be strong, cry and be honest..and thank God for the priveledge of knowing them at all...I know I did.
gotta go..it gets easier; but, it still gets you misty eyed sometimes
2007-10-22 03:55:36 · answer #4 · answered by Kenneth 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing you can do really. Ive personally never had any problem dealing with death, but i guess in all of my cases i was prepared for it.
2007-10-22 03:50:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think crying until you cant cry anymore is a good way, and follow that with either writing about how you feel (eg poetry) and finding a way to say a final goodbye... try talking to the person who passed away (that may sound stupid but it works) tell them how you feel.
Sorry, i hope your ok.
2007-10-22 03:50:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ernest you need to get yourself some debriefing. You've already done the right thing by asking but YHA is not the right place.
2007-10-22 05:21:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
greive and as you will go through the various stages of stress loss from denial to acceptance . life goes on .
2007-10-22 03:59:52 · answer #8 · answered by dogpatch USA 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you consider your own impending death? Ultimately we are already dead. Whatever belief makes you accept that and can lead a normal life is good for you.
2007-10-22 03:51:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Throw away your calendar and focus on your grief.
2007-10-22 03:53:04 · answer #10 · answered by Ripper Parker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋