I am a very depressed man and need of some advice?

Question

Everyday I am screwed over by my job, or by my girlfriend, or by my divoricing parents, or by most importantly, my career dreams that will never come true. Life has been nothing but letdowns and pain for me. When I get enough courage, hopefully god will forgive me, I want to take my life.

Answer 1

HOMEOPATHIC TREATMENT FOR DEPRESSION & GRIEF (Bereavement) without any side effects or complications and totally non addictive :-

Severe shock due to sudden death of loved ones; restlessness, anxiety and fear Aconite 200X. 10 min (3 Doses)

Prolonged mournings; cannot overcome the loss of loved ones and/or Mood Swings. Ignatia 1M or 10M, 6 hourly (3 Doses)

When the grief is in the conscious mind; patient weeps; does not like sympathy Natrum Mur.200X or 1M, 6 hourly (3 Doses)

For chronic grief and indignation Staphysagria 200X or 1M, weekly (3 Doses)

Depression with suicidal thoughts feeling of worthlessness, Aurum Met 30X, three times a day half hour before meals.


Take the remedy which is similar to your symptoms. No side effects or complications if taken as directed, please do not exceed the given dosage and under any circumstances do not try to mix any remedies and avoid Chocolates, Mints, Coffee, Red Meat, Alcoholic and Carbonated drinks, Spicy Rich Food while taking any Homeopathic remedies, and keep the medicines away from direct sunlight, heat strong smells and perfumes and do not store them in the fridge.
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Take Care and God Bless you.

Answer 2

First of all I had to think long and hard if this was worth answering. While reading this all I read was cry cry cry. then I looked in the Wedsters dictionary and this is what was stated in the book. I hope this will help.
MAN- having an opposable thumb, the ability to make and useful tools, speech, and a highly developed brain with the faculty of abstract thought.
a servent, follower, attendant, male employee, work man, etc...
a person with qualities conventionally regared as manly, such as strenght ,courage, ect..
to strengthen, brace, fortify, NERVE to be ones own man.
The Man, the person having power and authority over one.

While I was reading you said that you were a man, but what I was reading was a 12yr boy.
First of all relook at your job and see if you can do it better. Than maybe you will be notice. If not then you will have the good feeling of knowing a job will done.
As for your girlfriend maybe she is looking for the man you can be if you work at it.
Your divoricing parents, will always be your parents. the divorice will not change that.
Dreams thats what they are nothing more.
Unless you work very hard and willing to give up a lot of thing to get them.
But all dreams were not made to be had. Understand this and move on. As we grow we get differant dreams and some times they are better ones then the old ones.
Life was ment to be hard to teach us and make us grow. You have to work hard to get strong. And mistakes make us more courageous. To have courage is to have the attitude to face and deal with anything that come your way. The courage to do whats right.
Be glad that you are alive today and tomorrow will be better but only if you put good things in it. And only you can do that.
By starting off doing a good job to the best of your abilitys and being strong for your girlfreind and your parents and just laughining at life.
Have courage and there is hope at the end of the tunnel

Answer 3

David- I cannot answer your question. I can just offer you my opinion. I think every person is faced with hardships. I am currently facing a life changing decision that isn't easy and could affect people I love very much and I am feeling lost. The best advice I can give you is to seek help. There are many organizations that are there to help you. If you aren't comfortable with that just find a friend that you can confide in. I have felt the depths of depression and the thoughts you are having have raced through my mind as well. I found a friend to talk to, I kept a journal and I made changes in my life and took control of the things that were keeping me from reaching my happiness. I found that change and time heal your wounds. Remember that what you "do" doesn't define you, not a bad job, not a relationship with a partner or a love that has ended that is out of your control. You are defined by your heart, character and the things you can do to make the world a better place. Be strong. Make changes. Believe in yourself. You will be ok.

Answer 4

Over 3 yrs ago on the heals of loosing my father and moving to a new state my career was flushed away by a maniac who fired me simply to get herself off. I went thru a downward spiral of dead end jobs increasing debt and rising stress which just last month resulted in a nervous breakdown.

I am coming back to life now armed with proper dose of lexapro ( SSRI ) a back up of Klonepin ( fast acting tranquilizer ) as well as a new found spritual energy and the knowledge that I can within months
obtain what i need ( a teaching lic ) to make myself happy and solvent again avoiding a miserable move giving up my wonderful home and posible bankruptcy and or madness.

I tell u this becaue there is hope even in terrible situations and my biggest regret is waiting so long to fix this. I hope this was helpful feel free to contact

Perhaps ur gf needs to go if ur about to hurt urself think of all the nice people writing to try and stop u as well as well as all those who u met touch in future there is also 1-800- suicide
abd other hotlines or 911 to save u from what u can't undo

Answer 5

Please don't take your own life, my cousin did 12 months ago, and it destroyed me, as well as the rest of our family and her friends, It not the answer.
You need to talk to someone,wether it is family, a friend or a councillor, sometimes it is easier to talk to a stranger, they are not as close to the problem.
You need to focus on the positive things you do, no matter how small they are, by reading what you have written you have no self esteem, wether it has always been low or wether someone has destroyed it for you i don't know. You need to love yourself a bit before other people can love you more.
I don't know how old you are but if you work you must be a bit older, but if your parents are getting divorced there really isn't a lot you can do about it, my you need to tell your girlfriend to back off, let both her and your parents know how you are feeling, look for another job too. Ive been in jobs where they treat you like crap, there is something else out there for you, just give it a chance.
I do beg you not to take your own life, think past how your feeling, think of your family friends as well, get some help, all is not hopeless.

Answer 6

no life is worth living you can change your life and if those who are with you are bring you down let them go all my family is in another part of the country I could not live there any more they were depressing me too I found happiness when I moved away from them all and found a good person to live with and we are now married but I left my ex and everything my parents and moved changed job and I am now happier than I have ever been before in my whole life I am 44

edit the guy who answered you right after me is telling the truth I got the video the secret they sell the book to at walmart and I have read it and it has changed my life living proof! I also have the link to it on my profile!

Answer 7

i've got not got each and every of the records why you're depressed. you like a guy which you have been out of touch with for a at the same time as. what's the concern? Why are you depressed? as quickly as I get greater records, i could be waiting to offer a splash advice. word: maximum of my values comes from my mom and dad, and grandparents, and of direction the bible verse, manage evryone the form you desire to be taken care of.

Answer 8

Your not going to believe me but it will get better. I have been where you are and I got help. I went to my family doc and got help. He gave me an antidepressant which I feel has helped me greatly. In todays world depression is a very common disorder. It is also very treatable. Its not your fault for feeling the way you do and your not being selfish for getting help. I am twenty years old and didn't relize I had depression until my girlfriend and I broke up over fiver months ago! This is good that your getting help. Tell your doctor that you don't want to hurt yourself or anyone else you just want the pain to go away. Its not easy to ask for help especially with this disease, but please do.


The man in your corner (for tonight anyways)
Scratch

Answer 9

My God and I"m sure your God is a loving forgiving God and he did not put us here to check out when the times suck, trust me I know this. I'm bipolar so I fight it almost everyday I don't think people who are not like us can have a clue but I am like you i know how you feel and Id bet you have felt like this for a long time, right? So if I am right when did it start and how?

Answer 10

i know what its like to want to die and not have the courage and i'm not going to be like all the other people i know who have gone through it and said things get better i just want to tell you your not alone that things hurt alot and often and to be honest i still want to die but medication helps and at times i almost feel happy so try getting on something and in the mean time dump the girl who treats you badly or talk to her about it and look into what you really wanna do find something that makes you happy and stick with it do what you can to get by and thats really all the advice i can give you