so i got in some trouble?

Question

yea i got in some trouble at school so my dad got really mad he says he wants to hit me always makes threats that as soon as i turn 18 he's gonna "mess me up" but not those exact words if i fight i get in more trouble if i lose than if i win with him. he always makes threats what should i do?

i would call cps but he never hits me it's more mental abuse than anything

Answer 1

Tell him your moving out the day before you turn 18 ha ha.
Then realize he would probably die for you.He is just upset by what you did.Try to make him proud instead and work on getting good grades.

Answer 2

It sounds like your dad has some anger management issues. This is a tough one because I don't exactly know what you did to get in trouble. When I was a kid, my mom would always threaten me because she thought that would scare me into good behaviors. Little did she know it would just make it worse. Maybe you should try talking to him and telling him how you feel. If he's anything like my mother then talking is out of the question. Try not to get in trouble and do all of your chores. Then he would have no reason to threaten you. Then see what happens. Maybe things will get better. I hope this helps! Hang in there...

Answer 3

I THINK THIS STEMS FROM YOU BEHAVING BADLY AND MAYBE HE DOESNT KNOW HOW TO DEAL WITH IT BUT IF HE GETS LIKE THIS FOR OTHER LITTLE THING THEN TALK TO A RELATIVE THATS CLOSE TO HIM TO TELL HIM TO COOL OFF OR SCHOOL COUNSELOR AND MAYBE THEY CAN WARN HIM OR SOMETHING AND IF IT GETS TO THE POINT THAT YOU ARE SCARED CALL THE POLICE I THINK THAT WILL WAKE HIM UP AND MAKE HIM STOP THREATINING YOU IF YOU NEED MORE ADVICE LET ME KNOW GOD BLESS YOU

Answer 4

You could consider behaving yourself until you are 18 then simply leave, you'll be an adult then.

Answer 5

call child protective services
or the police