Okay, I'm 17 and I've never been kissed, because all the guys that have ever approached me are losers. But now there's this guy I really like, and the only problem is, I have NO IDEA how to kiss someone. It sounds lame, but I am totally clueless. I don't understand how it could possibly come natually and I don't want to be a failure at it haha. So how does it work? And what the heck do both people do with their tongues and everything...?
2007-10-21 15:18:00 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thats a very hard question to answer.....1st and foremost EVERYONE kisses different, and what some may say is a good kiss, others may not like. Even me, sometimes I like slow, passionate kisses and other times I like rough, give it to me now type kisses. All I can say is relax, go with the flow and do what feels naturally. And if u need a tutor, I'm available from 430- 545 monday thru Thursday....lol.
2007-10-21 15:26:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well never start anything with a kiss, it will come I know it (holy light thing going on sparkles and you look into his eyes and it seems right...errr) It comes naturally because it feels good. Humans are all about pleasure and feeling good.
A kiss can be a pec, or it can be the romantic "French" kiss. Then there is everything between that scale of gross to outrageous. If you ever kissed your parents or grandparents as a sign of love on the cheek, or the nose (where I can from) the maneuver can simply move to the cheek.
My first kiss was a pec, when I was... I think 15. And my first romantic kiss was when I was slightly impaired with alcohol. I don't think romantic kissing is for public, but a pec. You both will try out things and find which ones make you feel good. O and did I mention that there is more then pleasing your partner then a kiss, a massage around the ear?
(dont start a relation with a kiss if your meeting him/her for the first time get to know them then move in)
2007-10-21 22:26:20 · answer #2 · answered by boxfervor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't open your mouth all the way, there's no reason to. Be very moderate with the tounge. Exited little boys sometimes feel it necessary to try and eat your face. Sick. I'm not kidding when I say this, but old movies (casa blanca etc) are good to watch for propper nice kissing. You can prolly show him a thing or two.
2007-10-21 22:25:35 · answer #3 · answered by harloblond 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have never been kissed either, but I have been told that it comes naturally. I get nervous when I think about it sometimes. However, most people I talk to about kissing tell me their first time was not that great. I don't think you will be considered a failure, but you just get better every time. However, be careful! Kissing sometimes leads to other things...
2007-10-21 22:25:59 · answer #4 · answered by Jackie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just go with the flow. Start out soft and gentle. Do NOT use to much tongue. It's just messy. A little tongue here and there is definately not a bad thing though. Your first time might be a little weird but if he likes you and you like him all you need is practice.
2007-10-21 22:23:16 · answer #5 · answered by sarah b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww u poor thing 17 and still a lip virgin ok well if it's just a regular kiss just pucker up and let ur lips touch but if it's making out then ok this may sound corny but practice makes perfect so practice on ur hand our something u don't need 2 try ne tricks yet it's only ur 1st kiss.
2007-10-21 22:25:54 · answer #6 · answered by Letetsia F 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wacth some movies were they kiss all the time!!!!!!!!!! your get it and practice with a pillow or ur hand lke till ur head to the side an djust kiss try off wiht a pucker kiss the get deeper in to it if u wana learn frech kiss wiht ur mouth open an dtry to tickel the guys tounge
good luck hope i helped
2007-10-21 22:25:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make fish lips and practice kissing a mirror..hey, it's a start
2007-10-21 22:22:38 · answer #8 · answered by luh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have heard it just comes naturally. Theres nothing to really be said about it, just start off slow and no tounge, and slowly ease into it. It will just happen properly eventually.
2007-10-21 22:21:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just relax your lips and not to tight together. Upon contact have a lightly sucking satuation.
Enjoy !
2007-10-21 22:23:19 · answer #10 · answered by honker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋