I'm writing my wedding vows. Is it formal to let the bride to be see them before the wedding? Are we supposed to compare each others first?
2007-10-21 14:42:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
you are not supposed to let the bride see. It is for the better cause the first time she hears you say them will mean so much more
2007-10-21 14:46:05 · answer #1 · answered by ce_ce_037 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is completely up to you on whether you want to write your vows together, or if you want them to be a surprise for each other. Many brides and groom write their vows together, so if that is what you want to do, then do it.
You can also discuss the vows without letting each other read them, as far as length and the general content without giving too much away. That way you can make sure that both of you have similar ideas and one will not be super short and the other super long.
Good luck!
2007-10-21 14:58:25 · answer #2 · answered by Reba 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Writing your own vows is a very personal, wonderful gift. I would give a copy to the officiant in case you had some problems reading them or remembering them. Let the vows you have writen be a gift to your sweetheart. Keep them in your heart, at least untill the time to state them.
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2007-10-21 18:38:49 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a good idea to share your vows with each other before the wedding.
2007-10-21 14:45:49 · answer #4 · answered by Julia 86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is special when your bride hears the vows from your heart at the wedding itself. I would just speak from my heart and your bride will be thrilled and probably in tears.
2007-10-21 14:46:49 · answer #5 · answered by hawkeye316 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-13 11:32:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohhh, I wouldn't let her see them. I think it should be special to wait and see what you got to say to one another. I plan on writing mine as does my bf agreed to write his for our not so distant wedding lol. I would love to see what he says. To see her reaction would be totally worth the wait. :)
But I have never heard of comparing though. And make an agreement on a word limit so it won't take the time up so much.
2007-10-21 14:47:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really up to you and the style of your wedding. My husband and i wrote ours seperately then combined them to create the vows we said to each other and it was beatiful and fitting for our ceremony. blessings.
2007-10-21 14:53:10 · answer #8 · answered by abiona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep until the wedding day, let there be emotion in the vow, let her weep tears of joy, congrats, and love her til the end of time...
2007-10-21 14:46:18 · answer #9 · answered by SleepingBeauty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me I'd have a friend or family member with good judgement look at them both and offer seperate critiques, that way you'll both know that they'll be ok without giving away the surprise.
Congrats!
2007-10-21 14:46:34 · answer #10 · answered by JungleJane 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋