There's this girl at my school that I like who's really cute and I think likes me, but I'm not sure. She smiles at me alot and asks me all the time to sit with her at lunch. Then, at homecoming, even though we didn't go together, she wanted me to dance with her. Is she just being friendly or does she like me too? When I'm around her, I get really shy and if she does like me, I wouldn't know what to do. Help would be nice. Please!
2007-10-21 10:07:26 · 33 answers · asked by Thunder 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, yes, yes, yes, 1,000 times yes she does like you.
2007-10-21 10:09:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
People sure don't ask simple questions on here do they..? I suspect she probably does like you. It's really difficult to answer that because some girls are just friendly. The difficult part about this is that even if she does like you, you can spoil it if you start looking needy or if you start telling her how you feel too soon. At the same time, I'm sure you want to be honest. Some women love that sexual tension and most of us guys hate it.
I'm 39 years old and the very best advice that I know to give you is don't push it. Just be her friend and let things happen naturally until you see certain appropriate opportunities (you'll know them). Try to be patient. Over time your shyness will start to go away a little bit. You might also try talking to her on the phone. Chicks tend to open up on the phone. It's easier to talk that way. You don't have to sit there and look at the person. I wouldn't start asking her friends anything because girls are not always helpful. They are very competitive with each other and they can play dirty. Not only that, but if you start asking her friends questions, you might as well tell her you like her yourself because her friends are going to blab everything. Their blabbing could help you or it could hurt you. I think if you just play it cool and keep doing what you're already doing, things should improve. The only thing that can spoil it is for some reason girls think making a guy jealous or playing hard to get, is a cure all for every situation. If she starts doing that, you may have to make a move... I'm getting a headache just answering this.. In most cases where I was successful with a woman, I got her on the phone. I am shy like you are.
Good luck..
2007-10-21 10:32:15 · answer #2 · answered by SYSV1RUS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she likes you. It may seem hard to tell whether she is just being friendly or REALLY likes you, but just see what happens and try not to be shy. If she is hanging with you see at least likes you as a friend, and probably more, so what have you got to loose? Try to just be yourself and see where it goes. Have fun man!
Hey and don't play games with go betweens, just be yourself and once you are comfortable you can broach the subject with her (yes it's not easy, that's why you don't want to rush it), but don't wait to long, try to get together with her next weekend and then follow up a couple a day or two later with something like, "I really had fun the other night, we should get together again" and see what she says. As for asking her out the first time, you can mention that you had fun hanging with her at the dance and that you would like to do something (something simple that you think she would like). One other note, part of being successful at first and being a good conversationalist (with anyone) is to listen to them when they are talking and find out what they like to do. She is probably just as clueless as you at the moment but is probably giving you subtle hints.
2007-10-21 10:12:29 · answer #3 · answered by Yo it's Me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what sort of relationship do you think youd have if you did ask her out? would it be a one night stand or a long term, and do you want to bother with that? you dont know whether she likes you, shes probs thinking the same thing- so why not bite the bullet? ask for her number! dont full out ask her out, spend some time out of school together first, that way you can get to know a bit more about one another without the crowds of the dinner hall.
and so what if it doesnt work, its an experience. and if it does work out? go with the flow
its a girls general rule that she doesnt ask the guy out.... thats their job...
good luck.
2007-10-21 10:13:35 · answer #4 · answered by xkatx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does seem like she's interested in you, so maybe you could engage her in small talk or maybe compliment her. Girls love it when guys do that. You don't have to go right off that bat and blurt out your question(does she like you too), but at least talk and get to know her, maybe a beautiful friendship is somewhere in your future. You never know, it could turn out to be a wondrous relationship, but the first step would be to spend time with her. Go ahead and walk her home or sit at her table at lunch. She asked you to dance with her, so in return maybe you could ask her to do something with her, such as going to the movies or something. Good Luck!!
2007-10-21 10:17:43 · answer #5 · answered by dragonfire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a girl, when we have a thing for a boy we do those things to get him to notice us. It sounds like she likes you but you never know until you ask. Ask her what she is doing next weekend. Just hang out as friends and maybe she'll realize that she really does want to be more than just friends.
2007-10-21 10:12:18 · answer #6 · answered by Catherine 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she diffenetly like you and the first step would be to get rid of your shyness and go and hang out with her at lunch. One thing you should know about girls most of them are shy so even if she liked you she would never personaly come and ask you out. she is waited for you to make the move. Take my advice because she really seems to like you. If she didn't she won't have wasted her time and asked you to dance and asked you to hang out with her.
2007-10-21 10:13:41 · answer #7 · answered by big papy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes she likes you alot.
What I would do if I were you is I would ask her if she wanted to go to the movies or something. If you do this then you will be spending time with her but won't have to do alot of talking.
If she likes you then you, then you can keep on asking her to go out places with you! Good Luck!! Hope this helps!!
2007-10-21 10:13:11 · answer #8 · answered by Swimmy101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok u can go up to her and ask her in her ear and ask her in a private place where no one else is. make shure she doesnt have a boyfriend first and good luck. um also be nice,charming,funny,not geeky,and wear nice clothes! girls like that i know because im hitch but not the one in the movie. and once agian good luck
2007-10-21 10:12:10 · answer #9 · answered by cheyenne r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah to b young again
well for starters u like her that should b enough motiv to hit on her
and think of it this way u said shes cute im sure some one els noticed it by now
and if u dont move quik ur conna see her wit someone els
u gotta move on it bro
2007-10-21 10:15:03 · answer #10 · answered by 猿mikosins罪 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey man. that's why she likes you. because of the way you are. however do open yourself a bit more and allow her to access you a bit more. after all most of all are shy when it comes to our own personal issues. she really likes you. try to be yourself and see how it goes.....if she is the right one for you she will find the key to your heart.but do not let your shyness ruin your love life / experiences. good luck
2007-10-21 10:13:29 · answer #11 · answered by mauilina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋