ok im in a friends with benifits relasohship is this liek secrotly dating or wut
2007-10-21 09:33:33 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we are both 14 and we cant have sex till we are mirried
2007-10-21 09:39:25 · update #1
and are like dating but only a couple people know
2007-10-21 09:46:52 · update #2
Casual friends...wow...I have been in this situation more than once. My friends with benefits made it clear to not take whatever we did for more than it was. In a relationship like that you're not allowed to get attached, not really allowed to tell others about it, and not likely to go out on dates. Sometimes it would involve no kissing and just sex. They vary, but I can tell you this - you won't be as happy as you would in a REAL relationship. Casual relationships like these are just setting you up to get hurt, unless you can really just have sex with a guy and have no real feelings afterwards. Just be careful. I know what I'm talking about.
2007-10-21 09:38:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out while you can. There will only be drama with this kind of relationship and someone will get hurt. This is not a real relationship. I am in the same situation with this woman I have known for years, she wants a boyfriend and I want nothing too do with her...in that way. It's just sex to me. She tries to say that other guys would love too be with her, but I only laugh at her on the inside. If other guys want to be with her, why does she keep coming back to me? I had to END this dead end relationship it wasn't fair to her or me.
2007-10-21 09:43:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, if you're both into it and no one is getting their feelings hurt, go for it. I have a male friend of 16 years I still have sex with sometimes, then we go back to just hanging out. As long as he doesn't leave right after, he's not using you. From the way you spell it looks like you're about 10 though so you might want to reconsider your focus for awhile.
2007-10-21 09:38:28 · answer #3 · answered by Eraserhead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends with benifits could be a good sexual launch for the two events. merely merely be useful you the two understand that its all its going to be. for me, i tend to stray faraway from that form of ingredient because of the fact very usually one or the different develops emotions for the different guy or woman, which finally ends up in harm. yet, as long as you men dont develope emotions for one yet another then it would be fantastic... and this form of 'friendship' shouldnt final if one or the different could acquire a bf/gf...
2016-10-04 07:31:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends with benifits is just getting together for sex. that's it. there may be the occational dinner or something, but usually it's about the sex. it's fine if that is all that you want out of it....but if you are hoping for more, then you need to get out of that relationship. usually they are dating you and one or two others and don't want to commit for any reason.
2007-10-21 09:37:08 · answer #5 · answered by Latino Heat 4ever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be, the guy either currently doesn't have the interest to be your boyfriend or already has a girlfriend or wife. He just wants to be friends with you for now and share sex at the same time.
2007-10-21 09:38:15 · answer #6 · answered by Heather 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,
Friends with benefits to a guy is, We can hookup, and say were friends, but we don't haver the rules of a relationship, i.e. hooking up with other people.
If you want a "secret" relationship, make sure both of you are mutually exclusive.
2007-10-21 09:37:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends with benefits doesn't have to mean secret it can just mean that you mutually agree that it's sexual with no permanent goal into a more serious relationship thats why it's called friends with benefits,but if it's secret ask yourself who's benefiting from that part of it.Hope I helped at least a little.
2007-10-21 09:44:31 · answer #8 · answered by Richard B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. You need to have a little chat about that. Friends with benefits is very different from dating but not ready to tell.
2007-10-21 09:36:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but I think a female "friend" with benefits is just a girl who's being used. A true friend would not do that. If you don't have any illusions I guess that's your choice.
2007-10-21 09:36:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋