I made friends with this guy a yr ago in school.
Kept in touch.
Invited me on a trip with him but i couldnt
We moved to different cities...far apart
Kept in touch again & chatted
He visited me..was like a bit more than friends
He contacted me & invited me to visit him if ever
i wanted..told him I would but he's not often there
due to work commitments
Nxt time we spoke he invited me to visit him...told him i would
love to when i get time off.
Is this a bit unstable?
2007-10-21 09:31:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
that is how things go, life takes over, but true friends understand that ,
2007-10-21 09:35:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
You or him? He invited U on a trip, but U couldn't (go, I;m guessing), U kept in touch over time eventhough you moved far apart from each other. U became more than friends (my emphasis), and he invited U again & yet again.
I think you are overreacting. Do U have a good relationship now? Is the realtionship better now that U became more than friends? You communicate with each other, which is a big plus theses days. But it seems U keep putting him off. Ask yourself: Do U want to date him/see him again, or not?
2007-10-21 17:00:56 · answer #2 · answered by Andy K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesn't sound like he has a mental problem...just sounds like he wants to be closer to you....the unstable thing is trying to have a relationship that is long distance. they hardly ever work out and usually someone gets hurts.
2007-10-21 16:35:23 · answer #3 · answered by Latino Heat 4ever 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHY so much drama over a casual encounter ?
Is anyone on meds or booze ?
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2007-10-21 16:40:44 · answer #4 · answered by kate 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i think your are a bit confused about the whole situation because i certainly am, just talk to him properly and see what happpens
2007-10-21 16:36:35 · answer #5 · answered by mizzmamma 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes it's time to move on in your life.good luck.
2007-10-21 16:36:12 · answer #6 · answered by Spot 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you have any idea what a mental problem actually is?
2007-10-21 16:35:54 · answer #7 · answered by clare 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
More so on your part.
2007-10-21 16:34:44 · answer #8 · answered by BL 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, he is just interested in you. If you aren't interested tell him so.
2007-10-21 16:40:08 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's you who sounds nuts.
2007-10-21 16:47:48 · answer #10 · answered by foxinapairofsox 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋