A childhood friend and I met up yest. We went to a cafe and a lady selling pink roses passed by and he bought me one. I don't know if it was considered a date. We talked about how he must go thru 10 days of not eating meat to support his family being Buddhist. We joked about how it is so hard for him to not eat meat. Everything went well, flirted, etc. Afterwards, he left to eat dinner at a vegetarian restaurant with his family. While he was there, he texted me "I hate eating veggies." And I texted right back (3 minutes later) that "Aww poor thing... hang in there hehe." Now I still haven't received any text or call back? Did I say or do something wrong? Should I have waited 1/2 hr? It has been 24 hrs since I heard back from him. Most importantly, did my message come across too mushy or sound like i want a relationship out of it already? Oh yea, and in his profile, it says he is looking for friendship, not dating. Do u think that may change? Does my text make him think i'm all over him
2007-10-21 07:37:37 · 14 answers · asked by Svetlana Z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well sometimes when you read a message off the computer or phone. You don't know what kind of tone of voice the person was talking in. Like when you said Aw poor thing. He probably thought you were like saying it in a smart tone. So like call him or something and talk to him.
2007-10-21 07:41:58 · answer #1 · answered by Lexii. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down your text was fine. He's probably just busy with his family. Give it time because right now u sound a little obsessed, no offense. As for your message it was more of a playful message then mushy.
2007-10-21 14:45:25 · answer #2 · answered by JoJo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
calm down. ok was probley eating or seomthing. sometimes texts dont arrive for awhile. its happened me a couple of times.the message was not mushy or anything.. itll be okay. he probley just hasnt checked his phone or didnt receive it yet. or he might have exited out of it accidently and it didnt show up!! try calling him and asking about how the dinner went. or how hes been hangin in there. not a big deal. =]
2007-10-21 14:46:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just busy with family things. I'm sure he'll get back to you. Boys tend to forget to text back..... give him a text to say hi and he'll probably apologise for not getting back to you!
2007-10-21 14:47:37 · answer #4 · answered by beausbreeches 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG GIRL! stop over annalysing! it's a text!. maybe his battery dead or he never got it or he's busy! it was only a text - didn''t sound mushy you're just thinking about it way toooooooo much!
2007-10-21 14:42:57 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are, like most women do, reading too much into one date. It was just one date, it's not your whole future, it's not any indication of what your future will be. It's one date.
2007-10-21 14:40:48 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did nothing wrong call him back today and see whats up with him. Don't go too much into it.
2007-10-21 14:41:41 · answer #7 · answered by tjtrov07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You asked this question three times already, why do you have to ask it for the fourth time?
2007-10-21 14:42:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not considered being all over him....just give it time or just text him sayign heyy....and just talk to him liek it never happened.....
2007-10-21 14:51:00 · answer #9 · answered by SoftballLover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all.
don't over think it.
he proabably read your text, laughed, then went on eating and forgot about later.
don't worry.
2007-10-21 14:42:08 · answer #10 · answered by iloveeshopping1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋