and no, i'm not fishing for compliments at all. every1's been telling me she's totally jealous & also lately she's been SO annoying 4 me to be around because she's always insulting me & saying my crush doesn't like me back (even though it's obvious to every1 he does).
my other friends told me they think she's jealous of me because
1- i'm skinny (in shape) and she's kind of chunky.
2- i'm pretty (like i said, no: i'm not fishing 4 compliments)
3- the guy i like likes me back & she has no chance with the guy she likes.
4- she's never had a real bf b4 but i have.
what should i do? this whole thing w/ her being jealous of me is turning her into a b*tch & i can't stand being around her anymore! thanks!
2007-10-21 07:36:56 · 21 answers · asked by bella♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok...... i'm just telling you everything my other friends said about the situation. but i really like this girls as a friend because we've known each other 4ever but i just want our friendship to go back to the way it was b4!
2007-10-21 07:43:47 · update #1
i'm not full of myself, trust me. it's other people who are always telling me to get more self confident!!!
2007-10-21 07:45:09 · update #2
omg...to clear this up... i did not do anything to her. she was interfering w/ me & matt and then at school she was always insulting the way i look (even though nothing she said about me was true...like she would call me fat, etc)
2007-10-21 07:53:36 · update #3
It is really hard when people are like this towards you, you think they are your friends then they turn your back on you. I would maybe suggest you either cool it for awhile, or find someone that may be interested in her, and fix her up with someone. She obviously have lower self esteem to be calling you names and stuff like that. You don't need to stoop down to her level of intelligence and you know who you are and what you stand up for. She hasn't experienced what you have experienced, perhaps that she is feeling kind of left out in a way, because she doesn't feel very good about herself. There are bigger women that are beautiful, only because they have good self esteem and have a good attitude about themselves. Tell her that she is not being a true friend if she is acting like that with a sour attitude and acting all jealous, friends should be happy for each other not, put downs and jealous and envious. That is not a true friend. Try and help her if you want to. She will see one day that a man will like her for her. Not for her negative attitude towards herself and others around her. She will learn and grow out of it, if she chooses to do that on her own time.
Why don't you help her feel good about herself? She may be a bigger girl or whatever, she can be beautiful if she accepts herself and guys will go to her if she if feeling good about herself. It is all psychological.Sometimes you have to let go for awhile and she will see for herself and how she looks at herself as a whole person that she is, and how she is acting towards you and herself.
2007-10-21 07:43:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-13 10:37:55 · answer #2 · answered by holtzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what it feels like to be jealous of my best friend, I'm not absolutely sure that I know how you feel, but complaining about her and saying that she's chunky, not pretty, and that she has no chance with her crush isn't gonna help you. Try to help her with her issues and help her find a guy, after all, she's your best friend and if she gets on your nerves, IGNORE HER!!!!!!!! It's not your fault that the guy who you like likes you back, and don't turn into an ego maniac, then you'll lose your guy.
2007-10-21 07:47:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow! She's totally jealous of you. If it's obvious that your boyfriend likes you and she's always negative about the good things that you have going for you then she's jealous. If you liked the way that she was before all of this then ask her why she's being so jealous or ask her if she knows that she's jealous of you. Sometimes people have mouth farts, speaking without thinking, and don't realize. SO maybe you should talk to her and get to the bottom of the issue. Like I said before, if you liked the way she was before all of this started happening then talk to her about it.
2007-10-21 07:43:18 · answer #4 · answered by spirit22poet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She isn't a real friend. Sorry to tell you but I had the same problem. My parents had me assessed and it turns out im gifted and my bff got all jealous. I was pretty upset when she started being an idiot. But then i figured wouldn't a real friend be happy for me? So I moved to my gifted school. And moved on and now I alot happier. Just move on.
2007-10-21 07:43:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you both need to just ignore each other.!! Shes a bad friend because shes acting jealous .!! but your a bad friend ,also, because you shouldn't say things like that about people.!! How are you sure thats why shes jealous of you.??
2007-10-21 07:43:14 · answer #6 · answered by Awesomely Me! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure she's really jealous of you, or are you just listening to heresay ("every1's been telling me she's totally jealous"). Did you do something to her that caused her insult you? She might not be jealous, she might be angry because something went wrong in your relationship. Don't analyze her until you talk over with her about what went wrong. Put yourself in her place and listen to her perspective.
2007-10-21 07:49:23 · answer #7 · answered by Victoria the Viking 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well if she's jealous and being mean and telling you that you dont have a chance then what makes you think she's your bff she obviously isnt she's not treating youl ike one. Leave before it gets worse.
2007-10-21 07:41:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's not really jealous of you, but you think she is and so you act differently toward her, which in turn makes her act differently to you. If she's really your best friend, then talk to her about it.
2007-10-21 07:40:26 · answer #9 · answered by I love my baby boy! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just move on with Ur life because if she knows that u think shes jealous then shes just going to try and mass with Ur self ex-stem
2007-10-21 07:43:00 · answer #10 · answered by tgozdziak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋