A friend asked me what is really good about life. I had to think about it and not really anything came to my mind. I like life, I'm not suicidal or anything but there is just not really any reason why life is so good.
I'm not talking about answers like Brownies (my first thought) but something that is just something really great and a reason to live for.
Is there something what is constantly good? For example relationships may be something worth living for but they can also be really frustrating. What can I answer if someone who has just lost everything (partner, friends, money, health, house) asks me that question?
(Apart from knowing that God will be there)
2007-10-21 01:10:10 · 8 answers · asked by special k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow! That is deep. You know what is really good about life? The fact that you wake up every day and it is never the same. You may run into the same people and do the same things but you never truly do the same thing twice. Its the variety of it. Its the constant change that will occur in life. Its the fact that no matter how you look at things it will always be different. The things that you will interact with will change you and you will change them. Its the whole fact that when you wake up get, get dressed, eat breakfast and run out the door... you are walking into a life that will change. For better or worse. That is whats so good about life. In a nut shell.
2007-10-21 01:22:26 · answer #1 · answered by shyguy4no1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a big big question from one so young.
Your can't know what to say to someone who has lost everything, you can only listen and then try to cheer them up saying you will always be there for them whenever they need you and that life is changing all the time and nothing bad lasts forever and ever.
Special K - don't take on every-ones burden, you are too young. Enjoy your youth while you have it. God Bless You
2007-10-21 08:18:33 · answer #2 · answered by Sally Anne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Others. Other people will always be there. Whether good or bad, they will be there. They might not be family or even friends. You will always find someone you can depend on, and there will always be someone who needs you. That is my reason for living. I always want to be there for the people who need me, and even when they don't need me, I still want to be with them.
When I was going through a "suicidal" phase, I was asking this question too. And the answer all my friends gave me was, "Live for yourself. Live for who needs you. Live for me." And I did; still do too.
2007-10-21 08:19:17 · answer #3 · answered by Amachi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There might not be anything happening in your life now, but you can change that.
Life is indeed what you make it, where are you going to go if you're sitting around?
Go and make some friends, join some clubs, or get a job, whatever, your friends will then introduce you to a potential partner, and from your job, you can get money, etc
You see?
Start today. Make your life rock!!!
2007-10-21 09:59:33 · answer #4 · answered by <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is not all good,,, but life is wonderful. Look at all the heart ache and pain in the world. Nothing is going to be perfect. The best thing about life for me is being with someone to love and seeing the world,,, if I could afford it.
My kids are my world, knowing that you created a life, with love, is wonderful.
Friends are life, just being with them, laughing, crying, memories.
Have fun, enjoy the good things, quit worrying about the bad.
As for your friend,,, they did not lose you.
2007-10-21 08:22:40 · answer #5 · answered by More or less 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to love and respect yourself at all times, and always think you are the best. No one will love you more. They will just use and abuse and dump you. So focus on your education and career and independence. Follow your dream for a great life. You can make it happen.
2007-10-21 08:17:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have family and friends to support you. You have the opportunity to learn,explore,travel learn new things. Learn about the different culture,customs,and tradition. You have a place to live. Tasty food to eat. SHOPPING most important thing.
2007-10-21 08:24:38 · answer #7 · answered by Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chocolate. love and sex.... nothing worth having ever comes is, but chocolate makes life taste good, love make life worth living for and sex make life feel good, the rest is just the perks of living your life so don't lose it, live it
cya....
2007-10-21 09:17:13 · answer #8 · answered by tmin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋