We've been going out 8 amazing months, he's even hinting about marriage and future and stuff (we're both 18 by the way). Thing is I'm the one which has to initiate pretty much everything in this relationship, whether it's arranging to meet or texting/ringing! Don't get me wrong i don't mind this because i love organizing etc, just sometimes i feel if he REALLY wanted to see me he would just ask. I've spoken to him about it before and he says the whole he loves me and just doesn't want to get in my way.annoy me etc.
He's the one that says he worried about us not spending enough time together so i try to convince him that i ill always have time for him and i'm oly at uni 3 1/2 days a week!! He seems really happy when i say it?? He's never said no to me once in a months and always put me before mates/family/money etc and does do things to show that he loves me, it's just don't understand this one thing.
Should i say something to him again, what should i say??
2007-10-21 00:36:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just don't want to annoy him by asking to see me 95% of the time or for him to see me just because he's bored or something?
2007-10-21 00:45:09 · update #1
Your way too young, at 18 you shouldnt have a serious relationship, enjoy your life. It sounds like he might need to do some growing up and take some decisive actions and not always leaving everything up to you, can you imagine being with that boring guy for the rest of your life and having to decide everything, doesnt sound like too much fun or excitement in a relationship to me.
2007-10-22 08:58:09 · answer #1 · answered by Raz9Caz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off I think you should wait before getting married. 18 is kind of young but I do think it's awesome that you two are dating. Second off just enjoy life and act like boyfriend/girlfriend. Just treat each other with respect and it's all good. Peace Out.
2007-10-21 18:20:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
and your questioning someone that considerate...whats wrong with you?
2007-10-21 00:41:27 · answer #3 · answered by koalatcomics 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋