Ok so i have been with my boyfriend now since i was fourteen..about a year and a half ne ways he is turning twenty one next weekend and i have been askn him what he wants well he was like saying he wants to have a threesome with me and this other girl. i dont really feel comfortable with it but i dont want to upset him. i really love him i duno what to do?
2007-10-21 00:33:28 · 10 answers · asked by dsdfs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is why a 16 year old has no business with a 21 year old. Honey, you are being molested.
2007-10-21 00:37:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm not going to give you an age difference lecture becuase my first boyfriend was 8 yrs older than me too... lol
If he loves you he won't be upset if you say no. He'll respect your wishes and your feelings. I am a little concerned that he's asking you to do it at all... That kind of thing, especially where one person in the relationship is unwilling, can really damage them as a couple. Watching the man you are dating be with another women is not going to be easy, not to mention being forced into a situation where you are expected to be with a women if you are not that way inclined.
Please don't agree to it if you feel uncomfortable in any way, don't give up your principles for anyone. If he cares for you he will understand and ask for something just for the two of you or something nicer like a DVD...hehe
Good luck, be safe.
2007-10-21 00:54:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him: a Threesome sounds great!!! Do I get to pick out the "other" GUY............or do you already have someone in mind??? LOL
Honestly, no man that respects and loves a woman would ever think of insulting her the way this guy just did to you. DUMP THE LOSER!!! He is saying that he is not being sexually satisfied with you. How insensitive is this guy???? Oh wait a minute, he prefers emotionally vulnerable young women to have sex with (Statutory RAPE), kind of answered my own question didn't I.
You deserve much better!
Good Luck!
2007-10-21 02:19:22 · answer #3 · answered by redheadedstepchild 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Say no because if anybody finds out about this you will be so embarrassed and upset Say no for respect for yourself and if he really loved you he wouldn't ask you to do this and if he isn't respecting your feelings I'm sure you can dump him and find a better boyfriend think what your family would say if someone told them Usually what your conscience says to do is the right thing
2007-10-21 00:39:57 · answer #4 · answered by dreamweaver 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes older and hes obviosly seeing another girl. You should leave him and find someone better. You should be comfertable with your bf and your not. I dont think the relationships going very well dump him.
2007-10-21 00:47:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there is a big problem there. sounds like he already has another girl in mind. so that means he basically wants to have sex with that girl, but doesn't want it to be cheating on you. so than he wants it to be both of you that way he looks innocent. definitely don't do it. plus if he is your boyfriend, he should respect you. if he is trying to force you to do this, than he definitely doesn't care that much about you. ask anyone, if you care for someone a lot you won't force them to do anything that they don't want to do. if he does get mad that you won't, than i would just leave the guy. it's not worth it. honestly think about it for a second, WHY DOES HE WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH THIS OTHER GIRL TOO? it's basically cheating on you with you right there watching the 2 getting it on. do you honestly want to see him having sex with a girl right in front of you? what if he likes it a lot with her and they seem to be enjoying it? what would you do? honestly i think that it would hurt like hell to see that. i honestly wouldn't even stay with the guy if he wants to do something like that to you. doesn't even sound like the guy loves you at all.
2007-10-21 00:40:31 · answer #6 · answered by Johnny Boy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get someone old enough to buy you a blow up doll.
Tell him to use her in your place.
Go find someone your own age !!!
2007-10-21 00:40:18 · answer #7 · answered by littlemonstersx2 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Buy him a cheap kite and tell him to go fly it.
2007-10-21 00:38:06 · answer #8 · answered by marty47 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him its jailtime and you dont want to see him in prison as if someone else gets unhappy they can report him for contributing
2007-10-21 00:37:39 · answer #9 · answered by koalatcomics 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl if he's askin for a threesome, leave him he's proven that you're not the only girl he's been w/, i think you are blindly in love, and he is breaking the law of statuatory rape, you're too young for him.
2007-10-21 00:38:04 · answer #10 · answered by a francis 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋