I've been with the same guy since high school and we've been together for 4 years and we've been engaged for a year. I recently got kicked out of my parents house and have to find an apartment. My boyfriend makes alot of money and can afford to live on his own, but when I asked him to move out with me he told me NO. I dont know if he doesnt want to leave the nest yet or he doesnt want to live with me. But I thought that would be the next step in our lives before getting married and I dont know what to do?? HELP
2007-10-20 19:19:59 · 4 answers · asked by laurena117 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How about asking him why? Maybe he is saving the living together for after you get married.
If he doesn't want to move in for a reason of valor, then fine. Ask him to help get your life started.
You have been engaged for a year. Set a date and get going.
2007-10-20 19:27:40 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider each of your alternative "...he doesn't want to...s" and neither one bodes well for your relationship progressing at the rate you seem to want.
On the other hand, getting kicked out of your house doesn't seem like a good reason to either get married or start living with someone without other reasons for doing so.
Get settled by yourself and then assess whether the relationship is going where you wish.
2007-10-21 02:33:56 · answer #2 · answered by LucaPacioli1492 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he will help you until you cn get on your feet. Once you are settled in, you can resolve your doubts about his feelings.
2007-10-21 02:24:51 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...it's coming to an end you know
2007-10-21 02:24:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋