Is it possible for a girl to be unhappy with you for not making a move?

Question

And on another note, when does a girl move on if you never make a move? When does she stop liking you?

By move, I meant asking her out. Not the other kind. Sorry for the confusion.

Answer 1

That's a very broad and tough question. It all depends on the girl. That's the thing about being the guy. It's expected for the man to make the move. You seldom see the girl do anything about it. It's hard to figure out if they'll like it or not either until it's too late. It's always make it, or break it.

To directly answer your question though, of course it's possible. Anything's possible! Especially if the girl is shy, then she wouldn't show her affection but await for you to show yours to her so she can be reassured and let loose. Just take your chance. Step right up and swing. If you miss, you know you tried. If you get a hit though, it may take you to different bases. ;)

And if you never make a move, I don't think that the relationship is gonna go anywhere. Everybody is different. If they really liked you, they wouldn't move on as fast. If they think they deserved better, then they could be over you in a second.

Girls are tough, so be a man and make the move!

Answer 2

Yes, it is possible for her to be unhappy for a while, but if she truly values your friendship she will learn to accept that 'you just aren't that into her', Or maybe she will get tired of waiting and decide she no longer wants to have you in her circle..which to me means that she is angry, or feeling rejected, or has decided to move on. If you want to keep her as a friend, treat her like a friend. At the right moment, when U 2 are getting along, drop a hint, like "I met this amazing girl, and I want to ask her out but I'm really shy..or something thing like that, that is TRUE. She maybe a little hurt in front of you & if she is, ask her what is wrong. She will either tell you or not. If she does tell she is hurt, tell her you didn't know she felt that way (if you didn't). Tell her you value her friendship (if you do), say I'm sorry that you feel bad, I would never want to her you. To sum it up, be honest with her in a delicate way, show concern for her feelings, value her as a person or friend, and reassure her that there are a lot of fish in sea, and probably many she hasn't even noticed. Let her down easy... She may like you for the rest of her life or not, but she will stop "liking you" as soon as she is emotionally ready to move on. But that is not for you do deal with, that is her journey learning.

Answer 3

Yes, it is very possible. The best choice is for the guy to make a move if he knows that the girl likes him back. If the guy continues being shy and doesn't make any move, then the girl will either have to make a move herself or the girl will eventually stop liking the guy. Opportunities in which one person likes someone who likes him/her back don't come everyday. So it's best for the guy to man up and show the girl that she fell for the right guy.

Answer 4

All of that depends on the girl. If it seems like you're blowing her off, and another guy comes along that show interest, and that she might have an interest in, then it's possible that she might move on. As far as making a move here... are you talking about a physical move... or the move of asking her out?

Answer 5

A girl does get mad if you dont make a move. It seems like you're not interested or have disappointed her in some way. All girls are different when it comes to making move. Just like guys. Once again, girls will stop liking you once they realize nothing will come of a relationship or that they dont find you attractive.

Answer 6

yea its very possible - you see girls are very shy and sensitive( as you might already be knowing) they like guys to make the first moves...but you have to do it at the exact right time....if you rush it, ull upset her n if u take too muc time she'll think youre not interested...

i know what you might be thinkin- how do i know when is the right time? leave that to the girls when they think the time is right they wont make the first move but the'll give you signs n clues...for example

lets say its a brand new realtionship n u hvnt evn you kno got to the touching part yet.....if a girl thinks its the right time 4 u 2 get physically active she'll probably telll you shes feeling cold ( saying " im feeling kinda cold" is an invitaion to come closer:D)( alos sometymes its not always words...body language also maters, so pay real good attention to every twist n turn she makes - one very comon body language to proceed to the next step is when a girl hugs herself- its like almost showing u that she wont mind if you were the one giving her a hug)...n also when a girl starts getting romantic, u kno its time!!

so thts wht - dnt rush it bt dnt drag it along either......watch out for clues n signs like the ones i said.........

i hope i helped.........^_^

Answer 7

Of course a girl can be unhappy with you for not making a move. Taking the first step shows initiative and confidence. What's attractive about someone who doesn't care enough about themselves to pursue what they want.

Answer 8

It depends on the girl really. Not everyone is the same. If you're interested and you know she is, dont be shy to make a move otherwise she eventually will lose interest because someone else will come along.

Answer 9

A girl like that is not worth your time. She doesn't know what she really wants if she's going to get mad over you not making a move. Girls like that don't have respect for themselves. It sounds like you have respect for them and it's a turn off when you decide to be a nice guy. Because, mind you, they haven't had a decent relationship with a guy who actually takes time when it comes to getting intimate. You'll find a girl who is flattered by you not making any move. Cheers to you.

Answer 10

yes, definetely. If you dont make a move, it gives your girl the impression you dont like her. She will move on to find someone else. But dont make too big a move. That sometimes freaks a girl out, and isn't classy.