how long do you think you should be in a relationship before you have sex?
2007-10-20 18:45:02 · 27 answers · asked by Dani<3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Until you're both ready... I dont think a month is too short.
2007-10-20 18:47:47 · answer #1 · answered by Mike S 4 · 2⤊ 6⤋
Sex isn't something that is introduced into a relationship to improve it. Dating is a way to learn more about a person and decide whether or not he will make a suitable husband for your children some day.
When you have sex you share something that is ment for one person.
I'm sorry if that is not your belief but that is that truth.
2007-10-22 00:52:41 · answer #2 · answered by Red 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It depends entirely on what you want the relationship afterwards to be like.
If you just want a one night stand (or something similar), you can have sex as soon as you feel like.
If you want a comfortable, short-term relationship, you should spend *at least* 7 to 14 hours together, before you have sex.
If you want a more serious boyfriend / girlfriend, you should spend a minimum of a month together, with at least 60 hours of that as face time.
Oh, and if you are thinking of marriage, it's best to wait a year or two, so the chemicals your body produces when you're in love have a chance to dissipate, and you can make a sensible decision realistically based on your compatibility with the other person.
Any time less than that (for each of these), and you are, in essence, relying more on dumb luck and less on wise relationship decision making strategies.
2007-10-21 01:56:15 · answer #3 · answered by Marc M 7 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Ok I disagree with some of the people. I think the time needs to be right, but I also think you should wait till you really know a person. I think a month is way to short of a time, but then again I am one of those people that thinks you should be in love with someone to have sex with them. I dont beleive in casual sex. So if you think like me I would say at least 6 months, if you really know the person. And longer if you barely met them.
2007-10-21 01:55:18 · answer #4 · answered by princesshotty02 1 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Normally no later than 3 months. Sex is major part of relationship, and both must be satisfied with sex with each other or else why continue since it will fail and waste time.
2007-10-22 00:55:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Sex? Hell yeah! Lol j.k ummm...I it would be better until you are both ready. You guys should be going out for a long time and get to know each other. Maybe after you get married.
2007-10-21 02:04:18 · answer #6 · answered by Nebula 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It depends on you and your boyfriend.
With my first boyfriend, who I lost my virginity to when I was 14, it was one week.
With my current boyfriend it was even before we got together.
I'm just comfortable with my body and having sex. I trusted my boyfriend, loved him then and still love him now.
Sex is just sex. That's all. People make it out to be something huge. It's not.
Also, if you wait until you're married you'll completely dissapoint your husband/wife, cause you'll have no idea what you're doing!
Have sex when you feel comfortable enough to do it your partner.
2007-10-22 22:09:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anabelle 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You're asking the wrong group of people, you should be asking this question to yourself. Meditate on it and see if you're emotionally ready for an intimate relationship. The biggest thing I'd worry about is if it's for love or lust, and not just on your part.
And as for you other guys, in my personal opinion, "When you're ready" and "When you're married" are not good answers.
2007-10-22 09:43:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
until your both ready and at least 6 months or later
2007-10-24 19:24:24 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter what anyone else says. Just make sure that you're both ready and want to do it. Could be the first night you meet or a year later. Just have to make sure everyone's ready. Be safe about it, too.
2007-10-21 01:49:06 · answer #10 · answered by MrMarblesTI 4 · 5⤊ 3⤋
When ever your both ready. F*cK all that religious crap (unless your religious).
Some people do it within first date and some wait until they are married. There is no time line on it just ur own.
2007-10-21 01:55:03 · answer #11 · answered by Xavie 3 · 4⤊ 3⤋