I haven't seen this girl in just a little under 2 years, and I just saw her for the first time a few weeks ago. Ever since that day, all I can think about is her. No matter what I'm doing, all I can think about is her. I couldn't get her out of my mind even if I tried. I want to ask her out, but I don't want to blow it or do anything to screw up what could be a wonderful relationship. What should I do?
P.S. I am 16 and don't quite have a job yet. I am half black and the girl I like is white. We are both Christians. I look exactly like i do in my avatar. I think she is the most beautiful girl in the world and I would honestly feel dead if I knew I couldn't be with her. If you answer this question, answer with detail and sympathy. give me advice that you would give to your best friend.
2007-10-20 18:20:59 · 7 answers · asked by EK Music 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't jump into relationship and feelings talk, it could potentially scare her off into a further distance.
I suggest that you get her on the phone and chat for a bit, catch her when she has an opening and go have ice cream (well since its about to get cold) go have some hot chocolate or something of the sort.
Work it slowly and see what happens.
If that doesn't work, come back to me, and I'll help you gameplan man!!
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2007-10-20 18:24:54 · answer #1 · answered by Michael.Andrew 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want detail and sympathy then you've come to the wrong place. You don't tell people how to answer your question because then you don't get the truth.
The truth is, it can't be love, you don't know her. You haven't spent any time with her. She's been gone for 2 years and people change. You are liking the idea of being in love, but it's not real.
2007-10-21 01:23:58 · answer #2 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her how you feel, even though u think it'd feel awkward. I LOVE it when a guy tells me he can't stop thinking about me, or he misses me or something. You sound like a very sweet guy, so i'm sure you could come up with some cute way to ask her on a date. It's all your decision, though! You just have to go with what u feel is right! And yeah, I don't think it's love if u haven't seen her for two years. Maybe on your date, you can catch up on things, and then if you still feel the same way, maybe it is love! Good luck 'n God bless!
2007-10-21 01:26:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay.. where to start.
it ain't love.. get that idea out of your head.
its lust, infatuation.. whatever u call it.
do you know her?
if u havent seen this girl in over a year.. u cant walk up to her and ask her out on the spot.. make sure she remembers your name first..dont be acting like a fool..
make simple conversation, if u see her again..
dont go and stalk her now..
if u see her again.. get her number.. dont be so straight forward u might scare her.. simple conversation, ask for number..and if something progresses from there then great, if not then... sorry..
plus.. just to remind u.. it ain't love.
this is almost exactly what i'd tell my best friend.. by the way. lol
2007-10-21 01:33:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say you have a big crush on her. You wouldnt know if you're totally in love with her yet. However, all ive got to say is, if you dont try, you'll never know right? Better lost than never. Trust me on that. initiate a talk and get to know her first. Or u can ask her out on a casual drink or stroll first. Good luck!
2007-10-21 01:26:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's love, hon. Love is hard work. You have a crush, and crushes can sometimes hurt. Take your chances, ask her out. You may find she is a completely different person now, and your crush will fade to a friendly fondness - or she could be amazing. Truth is you'll never know until you spend more time with her.
2007-10-21 01:26:27 · answer #6 · answered by mmmmstrawberries 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure that she is really really what you want..because you are very young..and hormones make you think you are in love..and maybe your not. But you just have to go for it..and if she doesn't want you then don't feel like you would die, God just has another plan, she might be a beautiful girl, but maybe her personality is a fake.who knows ....God will allow things to happen if it is what he wants!!!
Good Luck hope I helped!
2007-10-21 01:28:41 · answer #7 · answered by ipod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋