how do i approach and get answers from someone i think my girl cheated on me with?
i know hes bipoloar and works out a lot but i really dont give a **** i am meeting him so whats the best way 2 ask him
did you mess around with my girlfriend
2007-10-20 16:28:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i asked her and she said nothing happened but i dont bgbelieve her
2007-10-20 16:31:14 · update #1
naw he knows she has a bf
2007-10-20 16:33:55 · update #2
i talked 2 my gf alrdy
2007-10-20 16:34:41 · update #3
i cant get any more info out of my gf
2007-10-20 16:38:12 · update #4
I would talk to your girlfriend and tell her you feel that she cheated on you. If so, dump her. You can find someone who will be faithful to you. I wouldn't waste my energy on him or her for that matter. If you feel you must meet with him, you can ask and if he admits it (most will not) tell him he can have her full time. I honestly think you should be discussing it with your girlfriend first. It takes two to tango.
2007-10-20 16:33:07 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say rather than that, FIRST ask your g/f IF she cheated on you...Do you know it to be a FACT or are you just doing some guessing on your part? Theen if she did, procede from there. BUT, remember it takes two. If she did, she must have consented on it. I think it's your g/ff you shold be dealing with instead, not him. IF you do not want a cheating g/f, then drop her. Find someone who is going to be true to you instead. From now on you're going to have a " are you cheating on me" issue. You're not going to know if she can be trusted or not. IF it's going to be this way from now on, find someone who is going to be fair/honest with you. Put her in your past & leave her there. That's when you start a new beginnning & find someone who is going to be true to you, someone who is going to be honest w/you, someone who is going to respect you the love you give to her & who w/give it to you in return. Going after him I don't think would be the way to go. He'd just tell you she was involved too. You sure dn't want to play the part of a foolShe's the one yoy want to deal with she's the one you have to make up your mind if she 's even worth it perid, IF she can't be trusted, she's the one I'd want to discard in your life,. You have no idea of what she could have told him. She could have said she had no b/f, she could be he one who's the lier!! Get your facts traight first for your own good. .
2007-10-20 18:14:49 · answer #2 · answered by Sue C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask your girlfriend? If she's messing around on you, she's the one who should be explaining.
2007-10-20 16:37:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dang it, If I had known this was the reason I woldn't have wasted my time answering the other one.
2007-10-20 17:41:41 · answer #4 · answered by Joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A swift kick in the nuts will get your message across.
2007-10-20 16:31:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is no way to do it without getting into trouble.
Ask her... if you can't trust her.... leave her....
seriously if you have to ask men if they messed around with your girlfriend... something's up.
2007-10-20 16:31:58 · answer #6 · answered by bored at work 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is exactly what i would say. and look him in the eye, you'll know. if yes fight, if no walk away. you are a good bf.
2007-10-20 16:32:07 · answer #7 · answered by alicia w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you are (your girlfriend's name) boyfriend, and you want to know if there is something going on with the two of them.
2007-10-20 16:30:59 · answer #8 · answered by Sa_San 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to be sure first. send one of your hot friends to flirt with him and if he does flirt back kick his ***
2007-10-20 16:37:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its her fault. He may not know u were together. If he did know, then hes got balls.
2007-10-20 16:33:01 · answer #10 · answered by P.I. Dustin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋