I was on a cruise with my best friend (Will), and my brother (Dan). On the cruise this girl came up to me and Will and told us she wanted to meet Dan, and if we helped hook them up that she would buy us a couple drinks. So we were telling her about Dan and what he likes and dislikes so they could have a conversation and stuff. So when we take her to meet Dan (she was a gorgeous girl by the way) and he pretty much ignored her. so we went to get some ice cream and i told her to sit by him and try talking but he was flat out ignoring her. She looked upset so i took her out to the top deck of the boat to talk to her and try and make her feel better since my bro was a jerk to her. we talked for about an hour about her ex bf who cheated on her, and my gf whos always "breaking up and unbreaking up" with me, and how it upsets me. then she goes "will this make you feel better" and tried to kiss me but i moved away and didnt let her, and felt like a jerk. I said "im sorry its not that i dont like you, but i love my girlfriend, and cant do that to her even tho i dont even know if we are still together. You a great girl but i cant, im sorry" and then i walked to to her room and told her good night, and gave her a 2 second hug. when i got back last night i told my "girlfriend" bc i felt i had to be honest, and she says she hates me and that she should never have trusted me, even tho i didnt kiss the girl, AND i didnt try and hide it from her what happened.. is what i did wrong? i didnt cheat on her with the girl, and she says that its just as bad as if i had bc i "let myself get into that situation.." did i mess up in this some how?
2007-10-20 15:47:55 · 6 answers · asked by Sebastian 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
umm u shouldnt have gone off with the girl cuz i can see why that would upset ur gf.. but i dont think u shouldve told her anyways because.. why tell her? u didnt do nething wrong ya know. so u shouldve just kept that to urself cuz now u caused unneccessary drama. but ur gf should NOT be that mad at all.. a little jealous that u went off with her.. which isnt cool.. but it should blow over... ur gf sounds verryyy jealous.. did u just tell her to make her jealous and show her u are wanted by other girls so she will stop breaking and unbreaking up with u? idk but it goes both ways hun.. be careful next time.. SEE YA!
2007-10-20 15:53:35 · answer #1 · answered by angeleyes932 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that your girlfriend is possessive and jealous. First of all, she doesn't have the right giving you crap about whether to trust you or not when she is constantly dumping you. Secondly, if she can't trust you, is it really worth it being in a relationship with someone who freaks out for every move you do, even the things that any grateful girl would be thankful for? Seriously. Talk to her, and if she doesn't change her ways, you should be the one to dump her.
2007-10-20 15:54:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your girlfriend insecure or just plain territorial? You were being honest and she didn't believe you.
Ask her if she loves you.
2007-10-20 16:01:26 · answer #3 · answered by fionamarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone in this story has issues..
However, I think you did the right thing..
And I think you need a new GF...
2007-10-20 15:53:52 · answer #4 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol alrite there buddy
2007-10-20 15:53:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry f.u.c.k her.
2007-10-20 15:50:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anthony G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋