...she is also my roomate (yes, she is single!!). It's me, her and two girls under the same roof. Me and my beautiful roomate are starting to build up a friendship, but I don't know how it can go any further. It is amazing how much we can relate, we're both clean-freaks, listen to the same music, workout, having a ton of the same interests. How should I handle this potentially awesome opportunity. I wanna tell her how I feel and be her Prince Charming - she is the sweetest girl I have ever met!!
2007-10-20 15:09:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go for it!
2007-10-20 15:11:04 · answer #1 · answered by Green Tea 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh no! How much longer are you in this lease with her?? Haha. Seriously, though, this can either turn out to be awesome or horrible. I'd err on the side of caution. Continue to enjoy each other's company. Hang out outside of the apartment. Make sure her feelings are mutual before you delve into anything, or else you could create a really awkward situation and lose the friendship you guys have built. If her feelings are mutual, you guys can then discuss how to proceed. GOOD LUCK!
2007-10-20 15:13:43 · answer #2 · answered by brokgirl44 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Without calling it an official date, why not ask her if she would like to go to a movie or something, maybe dinner. And gage how she reacts to you on this outing, then (if it's true) tell her what a wonderful time you had and you hope you can do it again. Then after the third or fourth time you could begin to tell her how you feel. If you do it too soon it may be like a train wreck, you know too much too fast too soon.
Play it smooth.
2007-10-20 15:14:51 · answer #3 · answered by bender_xr217 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would speak up and tell her how you feel - you never know, she may feel the same thing for you and just be afraid to tell you! If you don't make a move soon, she might have her status changed to taken and then you have to wait to make a move. I say make a move and see how it goes - sounds like there's going to be two happy people under one roof soon! Don't waste any more time - ASK HER!!....
2007-10-20 15:18:08 · answer #4 · answered by amyhwoods 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa cowboy if u tell her that u like her she is gonna completely change how she is acting......so id say unless uve been roomates for a long long long time then id just try to get to know her and build up that friendship a lot more.......and then eventually u can tell her......but dont rush things cuz if she doesnt feel the same....its gonna get ugly........watch season 2 of greys anatomy! ull see what i mean
2007-10-20 15:12:18 · answer #5 · answered by Jami 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ask some other girl out on a date. See if she has a jealous twinge, or comes up with excuses why you shouldn't do it.
If she doesn't seem to care, it just not there!
2007-10-20 15:14:22 · answer #6 · answered by david 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can try to see if she likes you too. You can get a friend to ask her or kind of hint her or just come clean and tell her you like her.
2007-10-20 15:16:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! See if she gives you any signs, dont let the perfect opportunity pass by! Good Luck!
2007-10-20 15:12:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
awwww....i luv these love stories.....;) ok.... tell her the EXACT SAME THING U TYPED!!!! just copy and paste it into an email, or print it out and stick it on her pillow with a rose taped to it..... if sume1 did that to me, i would be taken 4 lyfe... unlike my bf, who dosnt have a single romantic bone in his body.....
2007-10-20 15:14:50 · answer #9 · answered by Em A ZZ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well id wait a bit. if your in an apartment and the rent is due soon id do it then. because. what if she gets freaked and it becomes awkward and you guys are stuck in the same apartment for however long. if youre sure its gonna work out then do it. good luck!
2007-10-20 15:13:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Your supposed to ask her out if you like her. That's what I would do if I met that little hotty. Better hurry up!
2007-10-20 15:13:37 · answer #11 · answered by Ralphie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋