If a guys professes their infatuation with you after meeting you for only 3 days, is he only after the physical or would that be too presuming? Would you bother to give a guy like that a chance?
2007-10-20 14:46:51 · 13 answers · asked by RazzleDazzle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that is a yes and no answer, so you have to be careful... think of it this way
I met a girl about a week ago, with another friend, and we hit if off... a few days ago I met her again this time with some of her guy friends, and we hung out at a bar
Personally I am not really attracted to her physically. If you asked me if I would sleep with her? not the first night I met her, but maybe now that I am getting to know her
mentally and socially,, I am very attracted to her,, I just want to hang out and talk with her,,, she has the personallity that I like, she is open minded and we think a like,,, but I would not get serious with her,,, not now
NOW.... several years ago, I met a girl at work,,, the minute I met her I wanted to talk to her all the time,,, yes she was and still is beautiful,,, we hit it off just talking,, so she had both qualities... I wanted her physically and mentally
this guy may only want to get with you physically, so you have to test how he talks to you mentally,, how does he treat you, what do talk about, is he over flirty... think about all that...
get to know him before you get physical, because once he gets with you,, he may never talk again, or never leave you alone...
2007-10-22 21:28:56 · answer #1 · answered by More or less 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he is just stating that he is infatuated with you what is the harm? Unless he is making physical advances towards you I wouldn't worry too too much. It's okay for a person to let the other know they are "interested" in getting to know them better.
But keep the dates open. Go out don't just sit at his or your house on the couch or bed. And if thats his idea of a date then I'd steer clear.
2007-10-20 14:50:31 · answer #2 · answered by Chessie's having a GIRL! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on his other behaviors. If he's being pretty touchy-feely with you without you leading him into it, it's quite possible he's in it for the physical. If he calls you a lot, and talks to you a lot, wants to hear all about you, and smiles whenever he sees you, he probably really is completely head over heels for you. You just have to pay close attention to his body language and decide if you like him as much as he likes you, which could be more or less.
2007-10-20 14:51:56 · answer #3 · answered by ChristyMarie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how much time did you guys spend in these three days?? It does sound though like a physical thing b/c three days is JUST three days... I would give him a chance but i would have it in my head what i want and what is NOT going to happen.
2007-10-20 14:50:31 · answer #4 · answered by Tears are *Diamonds* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows? All guys are different, all girls are different, it could be physical or more. I would give him a chance.
What's wrong with him wanting the physical anyway? I meet lots of guys I think that way about, it doesn't mean I'm going to jump them all!
2007-10-20 14:51:41 · answer #5 · answered by munchkin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, most guys are interested in the physical, initially. That's how we're wired. It's what draws us to the opposite sex, physical attraction. When a guy sees a hot chick, he's not thinking, "WOW! That chick will be a great mother for my kids! I can't wait to walk down the aisle with her!"
2007-10-20 14:51:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
really hard to say about that,he may have liked your smile or the way you talked,best thing to do is talk to him an find out asking him if its just your body he is after wont work lol give him a chance an see if he starts doing or asking things you dont like dump him
2007-10-20 14:55:11 · answer #7 · answered by panthor001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh most definitely just physical. Have you known this guy for a long time? Was he a good friend of yours? If not, it's pretty safe to assume that he's trying real hard to get you comfortable enough to get intimate.
2007-10-20 14:51:17 · answer #8 · answered by Jasmine808 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would give him a chance but I wouldn't give him anything "physical" until you think he likes YOU. Three days is VERY short.
2007-10-20 14:56:58 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. They need to get to know you, and you need to get to know them. He sounds like the kind of person that is only after one thing. Move on and find someone that will get to know you first before making a move.
2007-10-20 14:51:11 · answer #10 · answered by JR 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋