So...lately i havent had a b/f...this is a first b/c usually its not hard at all to get one(not to sound concieted) But this year thats changed. wat is happening is the only guys that like me are the 1s i cant have!! Like they are 2 old. im 15 and ive had two guys so far like fall in love with me that are 19. 1 of them i dated...and it didnt work out for various reasons & i got my heart broke...not too menchion my mom found out & i got in a ton of trouble! Now theres this guys and hes gonna be 19 the 26th of this month. And he is the sweetet guy, not intersted in sex...and let me tell you im not easy.im very closed with guys and i know what not to belive, ive learded though expieriance..guys will tell you serously anything you wanna hear! but this guy id deffiantely different! he respects every part of me from my age, my parents, my beliefs in the situation. and i really would love to give him a chance but i just know i cant. my mom, & id never see him. Plz what do i do? help anything
2007-10-20 14:35:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, when will you be at east 16? Tell this boy how you feel but you need to be 16 which isn't too far.
Be his friend and tell him on your sweet 16 you are his girl.
*When u r under 16 your parents could get the guy in trouble for statutory rape.
*It seems you and this guy have something very special, so what is friendship for several more months.
In the meantime, you can talk to him on computer/phone and meet when you can.
But when you turn 16, things change a bit and mom has to back off a little. You'll have a job and bee going out with female friends on weekends (some weekdays)...well, what better time to do a little switcheroo and see your beloved.
Your mom is just looking out for you. No matter how cute babies look or how safe you think u r from getting pregnant, u will thank her in the end of not having a mistake, even cute, make you grow up too past.
Maybe this 19 year old is different but still don't let your guard 100% down.
Be his best friend and be honest you feel deeper. Give it a little time, like until your 16, then find smart ways to spend time with him and take it to the next step. Try to prepare mom but if mom is too rigid, you got to look out for numero uno.
2007-10-20 15:14:13 · answer #1 · answered by Lil Blousou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go out with him
if you make another wrong turn liek before you are screwed and suddenly your mom is alwasy going to follow you aorund. trust me ive been down that road. dont. Your reputation of being a good boyfriend or girlfriend will be turned into shreds. Date some guy at your school that you like and if he says no it isnt the end of the owrld you alwasy have your real friends. Right?
2007-10-20 21:41:22 · answer #2 · answered by bostonsoxandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say stay away. Honestly its not worth it for either of you at this moment. For one he is risking jail time as you are under the age of consent. I know you said he isn't interested in sex, but as a 22 year old male I don't think I have met a male close to my age that isn't interested in it.
I would say remain friends at first though I do question what the two of you have in common and will continue to have in common as time goes on due to the age gap.
2007-10-20 21:43:44 · answer #3 · answered by Talon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you are definately in a hard situation. but coming from a fellow teen, i would wait a bit until youre mom cooled down, then invite him to dinner. meet the parents and what not. if he is as good as you say, youre mom will love him! . but it might take some begging b4 she lets him in the house.
2007-10-20 21:40:28 · answer #4 · answered by Meg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
19 is too old. So is 18. And I don't care how much "respect" he shows, he wants to get in your pants. How are you even meeting 19 y/o?! There's plenty of time for dating older men when you're over 25 or so. Don't rush it. Date guys from your high school, not a college.
2007-10-20 21:40:08 · answer #5 · answered by Sugar Pie 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
15 is too young.
If a guy touches you it means jail.
Wait for your mr right till you are at least 18.
2007-10-20 21:41:23 · answer #6 · answered by B. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people end up with people alot older than them. Try to explain your feelings to your mom.
2007-10-20 21:40:09 · answer #7 · answered by chassidy k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur mom that u have feeling 4 this guy. also, have him meet her so she sees how sweet he really is. follow ur heart and everything will fall into place.
2007-10-20 21:39:45 · answer #8 · answered by Zoe B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you should sit down and talk with your mom...sit down and have a long talk... just explain everything out... have her listen to EVERYTHING that you have to say before she makes a decision. hope this helps...
2007-10-20 21:41:04 · answer #9 · answered by Tina<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋