Although my asian cousin married a caucasian male, my parents and friends think I'm weird that I'm attracted to Caucasian guys?!?
I have no idea how to justify my feelings.
2007-10-20 14:32:01 · 13 answers · asked by chrissy h 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
haha funny(sarcasm), I'm a america-born Citizen
2007-10-20 14:41:45 · update #1
People are attracted to qualities. It could be that there is something that you find attractive in non-Asian men. There is nothing weird about it.
2007-10-20 14:39:54 · answer #1 · answered by lacey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all good. White guys like me are attracted to latin and asian chicks too. Most of my exes are latina though,
but I did have a little crush on this Filipina co-worker like 10 years ago. You dont need to justify your feelings. You like what you like and it's okay. It's all good. I met the famous Cheryl Burke ( she's one hot Filipina!!! ) in Santa Monica back in 2006. I even got the pic of us posing together on my Myspace site to prove it....=) Look in my pics gallery. She's was dancing with Wayne Newton 2 weeks ago on the hit show "Dancing with the Stars". Her BF is Matthew Lawrence ( a white guy!) and they seem like a real cute, couple.
Dont worry about it. You like white guys. It's no big deal. Take care.
2007-10-20 15:01:44 · answer #2 · answered by Warrior Guardian 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm very international in my attraction to adult males...and definite, i know a few Asian adult males who i think of are relatively eye-catching (i'm caucasian, via how). quite a number of lady acquaintances of mine experience the comparable way, so definite, non-asian ladies could be interested in Asian adult males.
2016-10-04 06:19:55 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they say you cant pick who you fall in love with,its just happens, only person you have to make happy is you,if you are ok with Caucasian guys then great,yes i know that asian cultures rather you marry into the same. have to remember that its you that has to be happy not them, yes you will catch alot of slack just blow it off an be happy
2007-10-20 14:44:02 · answer #4 · answered by panthor001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reasons why we are attracted to certain folks are complicated and difficult to assess/explain. But there's no reason why you have to "justify" your feelings to anyone.
Allow your parents and friends to have their opinions. But don't let their opinions persuade you out of something that would make you happy and, potentially, incredibly happy.
Good luck, sister.
2007-10-20 14:42:10 · answer #5 · answered by A.Lee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhmm.....no thats not weird at all....I'm not Asian but my mom is white and my dad is black....so I'm not exactly completely caucasian and I'm dating a caucasian guy.......really skin color doesn't matter, if YOU like the guy and the skin color doesn't bother you then go for it.
2007-10-20 14:41:12 · answer #6 · answered by Nifty_250 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's all about who your comfortable with. You are trying to find that perfect someone for you not for your friends or family. Regardless of the person's outside appearance, in the end the only thing that matters is if you're comfortable with him and that he makes you happy.
2007-10-20 14:41:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No... my best friend is Asian and married a Caucasian. Face it... there's a bigger dating pool if you don't limit yourself to one particular race.
2007-10-20 14:38:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am attracted to people different from me. not just physical but also culture,food language and stuff like that.
there is so much variety in life mixing it a little never really hurt anyone. we are all the same but at the same time unique in our own ways
2007-10-20 14:40:41 · answer #9 · answered by r0manticforlife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you need to justify what you choose? It is your life. Choose what you like.
2007-10-20 14:39:28 · answer #10 · answered by bondioli22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋