kk, I have been going out with this guy for about five months. I really, really think I love him. But I'm not sure if he feels the same way. i mean, he tells me he loves me and all, but I'm just not sure if he's just playin me.
He is a really great guy, but I do have some trust issues. Like, I think he still wants his ex and would dump me 4 her anytime...(which he probably would) and a lot of other things. Idk...lots of people are telling me hes a cheater and a liar, but when I confront him he gets all pissed off. I really don't know what to do. I love him but I'm not sure if I can trust whats comin out of his mouth all the time.
oh, and his parents like, hate me and they give me these looks like they clearly wish me a painful death.
2007-10-20 13:25:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Boy do you have a conundrum on your hands. Let me see if we can unravel things.You have been dating him for about five months and think you love him. However your instincts and friends make you not trust him, you think he still loves his ex and would leave you in a heart beat for her again,he gets pissed off when you ask him about this issues,and his parents would turn you into shish-kebab if they could, but you love him.Would you tell me why you love him and what you love about him since you still think he is a great guy.What you need to do is walk, no run, away from him and his family and find yourself another guy.While we may be able to choose the person that we love , we cannot make that person love us back.And clearly there is nothing here for you.So retain what dignity , self-respect, and self-worth you can muster and walk away.
2007-10-20 14:31:17 · answer #1 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your instincts if in your heart you feel that he really is a good guy go with it but if you feel like he is cheating maybe you need a break from each other. All in all it's your life and your relationship the only person that can tell you how to run it is you. Your friends should never influence your decision. Best of luck love.
2007-10-20 20:31:20 · answer #2 · answered by hsflaggirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you really do believe that he would dump u for his ex any time then there's no point in staying with him....don't care about his parents hating you, it's HIM you're dating... Do you believe that he's cheating?? if so then i would say just leave him now befrore you would get any deeper involved.
You've talked to him and he gets mad so pretty much nothing changes!!
2007-10-20 20:32:29 · answer #3 · answered by Tears are *Diamonds* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋