i havent eaten for about a week now because since i stopped eating my crush has liked me, anyway, i went on a date with him today and i wore my black dress and he wrapped his hands around me and we kissed, but my physical symptoms are showing, like the whites of my eyes are yellowy and bloodshot (only slightly) my joints hurt, whenever i stand up i can hardly feel my legs, but the thing is, i cant change, i admit i ate an apple this morning but i havent eaten anything other than that my head is hurting what do you suggest ?? by the way i am seeing the guy again on monday night and i want to be even skinnier for him has any girl gone through this like me ?? thanks .
2007-10-20 11:11:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
your making yourself sick. dont try to be skinnier. if he likes you, he likes you the way you are. please eat more! your probably also somewhat depressed. Listen to some really good music, go somewhere fun with your date. But the main thing is PLEASE DONT STOP EATING!!! too many girls die or get sick from not eating, and it doesnt make you prettier! Just eat healthy. I dont know your body type, but maybe your a little chunkyish..so stop eating those chips and pick up some more friut and vegetables and take a jog every two days. Maybe your weight is just fine for your age and stuff, so just continue with how you are eating. Im 14 too and a lot of my friends think im like anorexic, but im not, i just eat regularly and it keeps me thin.
dont change, just get better!
best luck to you
2007-10-20 11:21:42 · answer #1 · answered by citrusxkiss 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could possibly become bulimic or anorexic. It's not a good thing to lose weight for a guy. You're only 14. If he can't deal with you the way you are, then you shouldn't be with him. The proper healthy way to lose weight is a diet. Not starvation.
2007-10-20 11:20:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well you're going to die if you don't eat. If he doesn't like you because you got a little extra meat on you when you do eat then that means he's a jerk. There are plenty of fish in the sea, and you don't need yahoo answers to tell you that. Good Luck out there and stay healthy! =]
2007-10-20 11:23:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
that is a wrong approach to lose weight for a guy. You should not lose weight for a guy so he can like you. You can lose weight for your self. but by not eating any thing you are going to be very sick. so try to be healthy and if you want to lose weight you could follow a good diet. but you still young for that... so live your life .. OK.. good luck
Just so you know.. if you get sick or unhealty, this guy going to leave you.. becasue guys are looking for a healthy girl in thier life..
2007-10-20 11:29:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is why girls your age shouldn't get so over heels about a guy. He isn't worth making your self sick. You are going to end up in the hospital. And you are wanting to get skinnier for him, gosh/ If he likes you it doesn't matter and if it does then dump his butt fast.. I think it would be best to stay away from him for while and get yourself straightened out. You health is the most important., besides you never know when he may dump you........................xx
2007-10-20 11:27:19 · answer #5 · answered by lana s 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's called anorexia and yes a lot of girls a have suffered it. Sometimes it's because it is because they have a poor ego and other because they have a crush on a guy and want to impress him. The best way to impress him is to stay healthy.
2007-10-20 11:22:32 · answer #6 · answered by Belgariad 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-07 07:24:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have some advice..
EAT! Trust Me!!!! (im seventeen btw)
I doubt that him starting to like you had anything to do with your not eating, in fact you should ask him and im almost certain he would say that he likes you the way you are (if he doesnt like you the way you are then my friend, is he really worth it?!, why change yourself by deadly means, just for him??)
oh and by the way, studies show that sometimes, not eating can slow your metabolism, and make you FAT!
please please go and eat something as soon as you've finished reading this! teenage girls hav died from cases like this :(
your friend... (please take my advice)
2007-10-20 11:31:53 · answer #8 · answered by ... 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To not eat means your stomache will swell up and use the fat you already have. You will look even bigger!
2007-10-20 11:49:55 · answer #9 · answered by Riley ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try some cancer. it will get you thin in no time. seriously,get a big,juicy hamburger. screw the guy.
2007-10-20 11:44:02 · answer #10 · answered by de_sade_xxl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋