y indian men get angry over this?

Question

i have 3 indian friends at work and all 3 of them are dating pakistani guys. however, when an indian guy finds out they tend 2 get very angry about this and start making rude remarks 2 the girls.i dont see the point in thins because if they prefer 2 date pakistani guys and are happy with them then y do others have 2 interfere in their relationship and let them be happy?

Answer 1

Indians hates Pakistanis and Pakistanis hate them too. More than seven or eight centuries ago India's state rulers were very weak and fought against each other. Entire country was divided in small states. Muslims from East Central States came and started taking over weaker states after killing or defeating the Raja of state. Often Rajas of nearby state helped Muslim invader because most Rajas hated each other. Hindus were too weak compared to Muslims and easily lost most battles. Slowly Muslims rulers particularly Mughals took over the entire India. Muslims gave freedom of religion and established good justice system. People were happy with new rulers and around 10% Hindus converted as Muslims by their Free Will. and another 10% or so immigrated from Arab countries because those days Arabs were extremely poor and India under Muslim rulers was very rich.

Muslims never forced any one to convert. If they did use force why would Muslims remain in less than 20% minority even after their 700 years rule. Hindu historians has written lies in their history books that Muslim rulers forced Hindus to convert. Fact is it never happend. God prohibits Muslims from forcing any one to accept Islam. Conversion has to be from their Free Will. Muslims ruled on Spain for 700 years but when they were forced to leave by crusaders there were no Muslims living in Spain because Muslims never forced any Christian to convert. It never really happend. Now some Islam haters on R&S will dispute my these statements. We are used to their hateful remarks.

India was so rich that British started coming as traders. Then they slowly brought their people and built forts and forces. Then British satarted capturing southern coastal cities. By then Muslim rulers also had become weak from too much wealth they had collected over centuries. Slowly in around 150-200 years British took over enire India killing the last Moghul King and all his descendents in Delhi. Then they ruled about 100 years. After world war ii they decided the gave independence to India. Before they left British carved a part of India and created Pakistan in 1947. Indians say British did to divide Muslims and Hindus to keep fighting against each other and they will keep selling them arms. Which theory could have some truth in it.

Indians can not forget the fact that Muslims ruled over them first 700 years, and lost the country to British and then British gave part of their land to Muslims to make their own Independent country which they see as a thorn in their side.
Therefore Indians hate Pakistanis. Just like British gave part of Palestine to Jews and since then Jews and Palestinians are fighting against each others since 1948. I won't be wrong if I say British are the worst evils and Satans on this earth. Where ever they went they did it. They divided Africa and middle east into so many small countries and both areas and nothing but wars amongst the countries they created like Kuwait out of Iraq, Lebanon out of Syria and Israel out of Palestine.

Pakistani don't like Indians either because they are infidels for worshipping idols and they talk bad against religion Islam. Hindus think Muslims are bad because Muslims won't worship their idols and Muslims consider them crazy for worshipping the statues, river, trees and cows. So Hindus hate Muslims and Muslim hate Hindus. Muslims are not allowed to marry a Hindu girl by religion because they are idol worshippers. It is ok if she convert as Muslim. Hidnus hate to see their girls convert and marry to Muslims. Muslims also hate the Muslim girl that marrys a hindu boy against the teaching of Islam. Therefore it has become a national honor and point of getting mad when a Muslim dates a Hindu girl or a Hindu dates a Muslim girl. I don't know the reason why more Hindu girls marry Muslim boys. Perhaps because Hindu girls are five times more single and available than Muslim girls. Also if a Muslim girl dates with a Hindu her brothers very likely will kill her for the reason you hear the honor killing because she does totally against the teaching of Islam and brings shame to her family. It is OK if the Hindu boy converts and starts worshiping one and only God. Then Muslims will accept him as part of the Muslim community. Now you will say what is wrong if Muslim girls converts and become Hindu. Muslims are much more devoted in their religion and won't see a Muslim girls turn Hindu and worship idols. That hurt their honor and for that they are willing to kill their own girl though killing is forbidden in Islam.

These are the facts. Hope you understood and learned some thing new.

Answer 2

1) Yes, she is playing you. 2) Getting a good job in the UK depends on a lot of things. Right now the economy there isn't in very good shape, so it may be difficult to find a job in software/computers, especially if you have very little experience. An entry level IT job will barely pay enough for you to live on, let alone with a 17 year old wife. And what kind of job would she be able to get? 3) Realistically -- A 17 year old British girl settle in India and you be able to afford to keep her happy? Has she ever been to India? What do you expect of her - to stay at home and be a good wife - a 17 year old who has already had relations with other men? These are questions you need to discuss with her and her parents. 4) Have you personally talked to her? Did she have problems understanding your accent? If not, then this shouldn't be a problem, plus, over time, you should both learn to understand each other's accents better. 5) Does it really matter if you are Indian or English? She should love you for who you are. If she only loves you because you are Indian, that isn't true love. If you both truly love each other, then you both should be willing to wait a few years. Finish your training and find a job and gain experience. Encourage her to finish school and take advanced education. Set some goals and if you both make it through the next few years and are still in love, then talk about getting married and where you should live, etc.

Answer 3

Remember Gandhi?

He fought the British (peacefully) for the right of Pakistan to succeed from India. The two areas are generally populated by people of VERY different religious beliefs (even if they have a similar ethnic heritage).

It would be like a Northern Yankee girl dating a Southern Revolutionary shortly after the American Civil war.

ADD: I would have to question why there are enough of these relationships to draw your attention. It would not surprise me to find out that the Indian women are choosing Pakistani men BECAUSE their family think it is wrong. They are being little rebels dating "bad boys" to stick it to their parents.

Answer 4

I would guess your three indian firends are Hindus, Well Indian Hindus and Pakistanis dont get along very well so thats the reason forthe remarks... Its just persoanl sterotype and bias. Happens vice versa too. Pakistani guys dont take it too well if one of thier women dates or marries an Indian guy. Me, Im indian and a pround Husband of a Bangladeshi-British woman.

Answer 5

It's a social and heritage discourse ........ This conflict, between two of the world's most populous countries, both with nuclear capability has the ominous potential to escalate into theater nuclear war, or beyond.

Tensions between India and Pakistan increased after a series of nuclear tests in mid 1998, as both states sought to demonstrate military parity. In May 1999 hostilities flared when India launched military strikes against Kashmiri insurgents.

Answer 6

Basically because Pakistani guys are more handsome than Indians

Answer 7

It's useless ethnocentrism based on the bad relations and conflicts between these two countries. It should have no bearing on a relationship. A person is not a country. If the guys are angry, they don't deserve the girls in the first place.

It's like if I were mad at a man for being born in a European country:

"How dare you were born in Switzerland! And to think, you fooled me with your good personality and manners!"

See how silly this judgement is?

Answer 8

Indians hate anything that has the Pakistani tag.

Answer 9

Because India and Pakistan have been in political conflict for a very, very long time.

It would be like bubba's sister dating a saudi arabian.

Answer 10

I believe that Pakistan and India have the fuedal thing going on.