healing from fnin up a good thing?

Question

basically i fd up a good relationship because i wanted my independence, but then startin to miss it, and its not possible to attain again. when will i forget about this, its been about a week or 2 already? im 24.

Answer 1

Give are take MONTHS! Honest thats about how it works, takes much, much time. ALSO its going to be complicated by the fact that you most frist LEARN something from it, and TWO find a way of your life that makes you feel (inside your self!!!) that your doing great for yourself. So time to look towards other avenues to improve yourself that way you feel as if your a better individual because of this experience. GOING TO BE EXTREMELY HARD!!!! Becasue the easy way is by talking to the person you transgressed against, the hard parts doing it on your own thru your own path. SO would help if your still friends, but that also leaves the chance that you'll start hoping again, which would start you from the very beganing. A good rule of thumb don't go into a relatinoship unless your purpose in life is with that relationship, anything less then that, is this...... its even more complicated then this, but I don't know how deep this relationship went....