Ami I jumping to conclusions?
He told me that I make men this way?How can I stop men from acting this way with me.My ex husband was the same
Should I be careful? I met this guy online in June.We have been dating eachother ever since.Lately he has?
began telling me that he wants me to move to his city. We live only 30 min away from each other.I dont have my own apartment because I have to help my grandmother,she wants me here.He has been looking for apartments in his city for me.The rent is really high where he lives.Why does he want me to just pick up and move there to be with him.The only help that he has offered is to rent a car and help move my belongings from here to there.He said that I am always coming to his place and he doesnt want to come to mine because it is too far.Could he be abusive?
Is this a warning?
Should I be carefull?
Does this mean that he wants to get married?Should I be carefull?
I'm torn. I have been dating this man for about two months now.Lately he has been telling me that he wants me to go to Arizona in November to meet his family,friends,everyone.H... and I live here in California and he wants to move to New York with him next year.He asked me last weekend if I can have children.I'm a little hesitant because he has a really BADDD temper.He got mad at me and punched the wall.We went on an outing to the park. I told him that I needed to go to the bathroom.When I got back from the bathroom he showed me his camera.He had followed me and took pictures of me as I went to the bathroom aal the way until I went inside.I remember stopping to talk to a lady about her dog,he took pictures of that too.Am I jumping to conclusions or should I be careful
2007-10-20 08:45:44 · 6 answers · asked by KISS ME♥*´`*•.¸★ 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Trust your instincts here. You are seeing a controlling person here who will isolate you from people who are important to you. He punched the wall. You are next. You are not jumping to conclusions. Please be careful.
2007-10-20 10:32:50 · answer #1 · answered by Simmi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please be very careful, this does not sound like a good guy. First of all you should not be moving to this same city as him when you have only been dating two months- that is rediculous. Second of all he sounds like a very abusive man- if he has a temper now imagine how he would act if you were married to him and he may feel he doesn't have to be the nice guy anymore because you are married.
2007-10-20 08:58:12 · answer #2 · answered by Kingsfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful i dont mean to break you but , at least I would never treat a girl like that. You should definetely be careful men that are known to be overly jealous are usually abusive. Definetely be careful. God bless
2007-10-20 08:50:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his lovin' is so good for you then you are trapped. He needs a slave for the marriage for sure. I don't think you have any choice because you are mentally under his spell. If he moves to your town he would not have any old flames to be with when you two are fighting.
2007-10-20 10:41:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are your own best friend or your own worst enemy. imagine your best friend telling you about her problems she and her boyfriend are having...imagine she is the one telling you this all happens to her. how would you feel? what advice would you give her? i believe your heart, spirit already knows. its time to take action. either you listen to your intuition, your spirit or you go with the flow. be careful.
2007-10-20 08:55:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wtf is wrong with you?? run away as fast as you can! do not pass go, do not collect $200. he is showing all the signs of being abusive and you've only been dating for two months?? come on girl, you can do better than that
2007-10-20 08:55:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋