I feel like my boyfriend and I have run out of things to tell each other...that upsets me because it makes me feel like it's close to being over! I want our spark back!
what to do?
p.s. No, we're not having sex, and have both agreed to wait a while!
2007-10-20 08:01:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We're not miving too fast. We're best friends...we have...well everything in common...
2007-10-20 08:28:41 · update #1
you guys should naturally be able to just talk about anything....have you lost a friendship with him? That's important to maintain a friendship with him even though he's your boyfriend... just talk about anything, he's your bf so it should just work
2007-10-20 08:05:09 · answer #1 · answered by Tears are *Diamonds* 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try going out and doing more things together. Events and activities are a good way to share social interactment, talk, and bring some spark back. Other than sex, maybe you guys just moved too fast. Take it easy for a while. But do more things together. I think that will help. Good luck. But, if things just become more awkward, maybe you two don't have as much in common as you thought and maybe you're not meant to be. Also, just because you have nothing to say, doesnt mean you're not saying anything. Think about it. Actions speak louder than words. Good luck with this and I hope things work out for the best. Hope this helps.
2007-10-20 15:06:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you both have work/school to talk about? The weather, for your plans for the week end. News events. Current happenings in your community. Just to name a few things.
2007-10-20 15:06:29 · answer #3 · answered by what u talkin' bout? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would try to tell u to spend a little more time with him, like go out to a nice dinner or sometin and try to reconnect with each other talk about how u guys day went and stuff.
Hope that helps!!
2007-10-20 15:05:26 · answer #4 · answered by sweetie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When there is nothing left to say, is a great time. You are past the bug-a-boo stage. Just find a nice, quiet hillside and watch the stars.
2007-10-20 15:05:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good JOb on the on the no sex part.
2007-10-20 15:05:53 · answer #6 · answered by E-liz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever try to go on vacation, or go somewhere new? That should spark some conversations.
2007-10-20 15:04:08 · answer #7 · answered by nick m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
bring in a third party, haha! jk
no, but really, if you have nothing really to talk about, make something up. tell him something that will put all the attention onto you, but make it realistic enough that he'll never doubt it. works on me.
2007-10-20 15:06:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you two have clearly gotten bored with each other and have nothing else to offer. Try to deny it all you like, but the end is inevitable. I wish i had a solution, but boredom is terminal.
2007-10-20 15:06:04 · answer #9 · answered by Dante 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go out to a club
2007-10-20 15:03:40 · answer #10 · answered by Sky 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋