This may sound like kind of an odd question.. But, when I am in church, and I see a nice looking lady.. My mind does wonder down the wrong path shall we say...And sometime the masses message does not get the attention it should! Anyway.. married or single men..Do you have this problem too?
2007-10-20 06:19:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
You asked for male opinions, but I'll throw in a female one anyway. I do this...perhaps not "lust", but I know that I've caught myself looking around trying to determine who the single men are and if any of them could be the one that God has in mind for me...and it sometimes distracts me from the message when I see a man that looks interesting (no wedding ring, about the right age, etc...).
This is something I struggle with all the time...I know that I need to put my future, including my future relationship (if any) in God's hands, but it is very hard for me to stop wondering and looking. When I realize that I'm turning around to see who walked in every time the door opens, I start praying that God will help me focus on him instead of my desires.
2007-10-20 06:33:13 · answer #1 · answered by KAL 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is one of the reasons why I think it is so wrong for girls to dress as provocative as they do now--even in Church. I see girls with skirts up to their ? and tops cut way low and waists down around their hips with all kinds of tattoos and I am thinking---what is with these parents that let their kids come to Church like this---school is bad enough but this? Unbelievable!
2007-10-20 13:33:55 · answer #2 · answered by Midge 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pretty much. Try sitting near the front, behind some really old people. That usually does the trick for me.
2007-10-20 13:34:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely!
When I was in church I'd often undress the good looking women in my mind.
Heck, I still do, wherever I am!
Confirmed horn-dog
2007-10-20 13:25:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your Sic mate
2007-10-20 13:59:11 · answer #5 · answered by Josh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not the "wrong path." It's the path that is established by genetics.
2007-10-20 13:28:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Women are beautiful, yes.
2007-10-20 13:21:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude my mind goes further. i'lll ask 4 #'s
2007-10-20 13:26:51 · answer #8 · answered by kramaster 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You betcha!
(I don't consider it a problem!)
2007-10-20 13:33:44 · answer #9 · answered by Champion of Knowledge 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can't help it if i look, but i do control my thoughts.
2007-10-20 13:24:43 · answer #10 · answered by That Guy Drew 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋