People think I am Bi becasue I have short hair? Help?

Question

I recently cut my hair short(like 2 weeks ago), i keep getting comment from people asking me if I am bi, or a lesbain. I support them and all, but i am not, and i dont want people getting a false idea of me. i cant walk thru the hall at school with out people screaming "dike" in my face. what do i do?

Answer 1

I have just answered a similar question.
Please listen and answer.
Are you Bi, No,
Are you dike, No
Are you what they call you NOOOOOOOOOO.
Then trust yourself you are what you are. You do what you want to do.
Tell me one thing. when we pass and a nearby dog if barks do we take a notice of the dog? So let those people say what ever they want. I know it is hard to ignore but that is best for you and your health.
Just think about hair, how to change, how to improve etc.
There is no way you can get back your hair, but to use artificial which I won't recommend.

Be brave do not distract from your target. You are what you are. That is your identity.

Hope this will help you.
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Answer 2

What??? That's just RUDE! Gosh, kids are so extremely cruel these days, it's terrible. I understand that it sucks you have to go through that, but the most important thing you can do is ignore them. Trust me, I've had my fair share of being tormented back when I was in High School and Junior High, and my biggest mistake was letting it get to me. You just have to ignore those people. Obviously they are ******* who are not your friends, so you shouldn't give a damn about what they think or say! They're just saying it because they have nothing better to do with their pathetic lives, they have to make fun of others to make themselves feel better. And that's what's really sad. So keep walking through those halls with a smile on your face and go about your business like nothing's wrong. It might take some time, but fake it till you make it.

Answer 3

Oh they can go stick it where the sun don't shine it is your hair and very stylish. If it bothers you get a wig, but really if you can wear short hair that is something not all people can do and look good. You can jazz it up with a couple streaks of different color and wear cool earrings. I love short hair but it doesn't look good on me. Your lucky.

Answer 4

Those people are stupid, just fix your hair to wear it still looks girly and if someone yells dike in your face... well if that were me.. I'd punch em in the face. You would get suspended but I bet the next person would think twice before yelling something in your face. :-D

Answer 5

they probably say it cause if you walk around and see bi people or something they have short hair. but im not saying you are. people are exposed to that, because a lot of people want short hair but cant even pull it off.

Answer 6

Who cares what people think? If it's that important you can always wear a wig with longer hair until your own grows back out. Normally people don't ask other people what their sexual preference is - especially based on getting a new haircut, but whatever; I wouldn't let it bother you. let them think whatever they want.

Answer 7

In high school I got my hair layered and short, I couldn't put my hair in a pony tail short. 2 of my so called friends started a rumour I was gay. I'm not gay, I was growing my natural hair colour out and it looked bad with half dye and half natural.

This is typical high school crap.

Grow your hair back long, and get a boyfriend so people will see you don't like girls.

People are jerks are school, just be happy when you leave for college. People are much more mature.

Answer 8

Wow! thats so stereotypical, geeze.

Well you can tell them where you go and stand up for yourself or buy some hair extentions =]

Theres loads of people in my school that have the pob hairstyle and thats short and they never get called names! just tell them to grow up and get a haircut! lol

xx

Answer 9

haha. you could always grow your hair long xD