Hi guys!
its great to be back! as you may or may not know i was in hospital having had a c section where my babies were born at 22 weeks gestation.
the babies are currently stable but critical condition and im fine after having my stitches out yesterday
ive got lots of questions but one in particular im torn on.
i had a huge bust up with my ex just after id had the babies. he was demanding to know which hospital i was in, because of background situation i told him he would need to meet me first then i would take him to the hospital to see the babies if we got past issues sorted, no i dont want him back before you all say... he still demanded to know where i was and started to get threatening, the last thing he said to me was i was lying and there prob was no babies and that he was gonna block me from his phone. again no great loss to me,
im unsure what to do now, do i leave him to it or do i sue his *** for every penny i can get? any advice on the whole situation would
2007-10-20 00:24:33 · 11 answers · asked by spongebobs biggest fan 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
be fantastic and thanks for listening to me!
2007-10-20 00:24:55 · update #1
firstly let me say congratulations! you have been missed here!
i know your going to want to get back to your babies in intensive care as soon as possible! congratulations again!
ok, your ex is clearly an ****. he should know better, hes an idiot for loosing you and his 3 beautiful children.
i wouldnt bother taking him to court from your past questions its been clear that he clearly doesnt want to be a dad or a man
think of him as a sperm donor and nothing more, there are plenty of men that would be willing to love you as much as your deserve
i think your fantastic for doing this all on your own and a very strong brave woman.
CONGRATULATIONS ON THE TRIPLETS
2007-10-20 00:30:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Firstly congratulations, i hope your baby's will be fine. Omg what a total jerk your ex sounds!. Do not worry about him or anything that he has to say. Sounds like he has a LOT of growing up to do. Concentrate all your energy on your baby's for the time being then, when they get the all clear, make sure he pays his way. You can't force him to be in their lives if he doesn't want to be, but if that's the case its his loss and sounds like no great loss to any of you either. You have enough love and support for your baby's, they don't need a poor excuse of a father messing them about.
Good luck sweetie xx
2007-10-20 00:46:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, im new to this but have seen the previous posts about you, congratulations!!!!!
personally, i would consider him a donation of your beuatiful babies and nothing more.
i know exactly how you feel, if you dont fight for money its like hes getting away scot free...on the other hand... is it worth having the dipsh*t in your life for the sake of a few dollars. i guess it also depends on your situation as to whether you need the money or not, just think of yourself and your children and what you need and dont even consider hes requests...im assuming that he was not a very good partner from what your question said.
i would tell him to lose your number, not block it!!!
good luck with everything :)
2007-10-20 00:48:40 · answer #3 · answered by lala 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hi. Congratulations! I would be concentrating on the babies right now. the suing can wait. Make sure your babies are OK, then do what you have to do. I wish you all the best!
2007-10-21 06:30:16 · answer #4 · answered by ♫♪Bag♫♪ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, DUMP him. He's frankly a waste of space. Do you really want your little ones growing up with him as a role model???
And yes - take him for every bit of maintenance you can get. Sadly you WILL have to agree to him seeing the babies, if the useless prat wants to - you can cope soooo much better without him, I reckon. Good luck.
2007-10-20 00:31:17 · answer #5 · answered by Sal*UK 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
congrats you must be delighted!if you were let enjoy it!
omg you poor thing i feel for you you are so strong.yer man is a wxxxxxr i say take him for all he has cause why should he get away with making three beautiful babies and not support them even if it is ONLY financialy.
2007-10-20 15:09:39 · answer #6 · answered by emilybells 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oi, ya muppet, dont even think of having any contact with him, for money or whatever
yes, he'll have (probably) rights to see the kids, but you come across as a decent, nice, young woman, and somebody will be glad of a ready made family
2007-10-22 02:23:11 · answer #7 · answered by jon h 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi Rammie, Congrats on the beginning of your little cherubs lol, I chop up with my ex a year in the past and that i grew to become into truthful approximately issues and that i demanded that she enable me help my daughter each and each month i've got been given paid i gave £one hundred thirty five in line with month for my female, yet you spot i grew to become into co-operative with my ex and we didnt get on in any respect. yet while he hasnt presented then bypass away him to it, enable him % what he needs if there aint no help dont stop him seeing the toddlers as they improve older they're going to desire to be attentive to interior the ned who there no good father is, yet once you enable him in now they're going to quickly make certain how a large number of a foul guy or woman he's, as i grew to become into advised they're going to purely hate your for conserving themin the top so the alternative is yours as you assert we are in a position to purely advise you in our very own way hun! you're taking care dont stress and save cool for the toddlers sake. God bless and talk later, e mail me in case you wanna enable stress out i'm able to help in some procedures lol. x x x x
2016-10-07 06:44:18 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him get on with it (the looser)his loss,like you say sue his*** off,then if he still wants to see the babies, let him he will realise what he has lost,and in the end you will have the say,where and when,all the best,xxxxxxxxxxxxxxto you and your babies xx
2007-10-20 05:07:38 · answer #9 · answered by emma 30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl take care of your babies and take his *** to court he deserve it get everything you can out of him squeeze him dry
2007-10-25 05:02:56 · answer #10 · answered by Court J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋