they want to project their rubbish on me, discredit me, spread rumours about me, making it out that ' their ' interpretation of me is the correct one.....getting people to outcast me and ostracize me....they want to ruin my image....drag my image through the dirt.
how can i handle this fact?
for i know that there are people outthere that hate me and wish to misportray me to others.
im a aging 30 year old borderline personality sufferer, and ptsd sufferer, whos had a very hard traumatic life.....i live in a one bedroom apartment, on welfare....never been employed....never made any friends....never had a partner....
im trying to get the right treatment and therapy.....to put my life together after horrific times...trying to put the bullying, abuse behind me.
but i know that theres still alot of people outthere who hate me, and want me to suffer more
2007-10-19 19:37:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Its a fact, but you will not always get on with everyone in the world, so just focus on those who you do get on with and tolerate those who you find less appealing. You can't please everyone all the time, so focus on yourself and being the best person you can be. Live and let live...
Also often those people you perceive as having negative intentions towards you actually don't and are more busy worrying about themselves and their own problems than to pay attention to you. They don't really have the time or energy to spend thinking evil thoughts about you and ill wishing every endeavour you undertake.
Those that do are simply mean people with too much time on their hands and I think that its best if you avoid them and ignore their existence. Who has time for that sort of rubbish and game playing when you have so much positive going on for you right now? Don't worry, be happy and get on living your own life without their judgements...
I mentioned awhile back that one has to do very little to earn a reputation, good or bad, and it really is only an external measure of self that we do little to influence in the minds of others unless they are open to change.
What matters is our own honour and when we know our own self worth and validate ourselves as being worthy of respect, others begin to see our integrity and act accordingly. So focus on being the best person you can be and let this set the tone for how others view you and treat you. I believe in you as a person, not an illness - so lose the self labels ok?
Bless you.
2007-10-20 03:42:36 · answer #1 · answered by Cat S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try hard not to let this get to you hun,alot of people go through this and i am glad to see you are getting help.People dont hate you,they might hate/dislike the things you do,but as a person,no,i dont think so.If you let this drag you down,you are letting them control you!Don't let them!Love yourself enough to stand up and toss those people out of your life for good,you dont need them.
2007-10-19 19:57:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You said it they are out there, so leave them out there, hold your head up high and seek new avenues like this one to meet new people. A word of advise do not tell them your life history, your stuff is just that your stuff. Keep on keeping on you sound like you are doing the right stuff.
2007-10-19 19:56:25 · answer #3 · answered by kate 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We all have haters some deserved and some not. Life is a work in progress and is always on the move. We move to live, bob and weave our haters.
2007-10-19 23:58:14 · answer #4 · answered by Coop 366 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋