if I meet someone for casual sex, but before sex we meet each other and gain each others trust. we both get checked for any possible STD's and at least one of us takes care for birth control. we also like each other, not really love but we like each other.
we both consent, we are both having a great time, we respect each other when someone changes their mind and says no. we are also both adults, we are educated about STD's and pregnancy.
we did everything to make sex safe. if we like it, its our thing to worry about. and child isnt prevent from being created, because birth control prevents eggs from being created.
I'm catholic but I'm also a rebel. so why would I go to Hell for this? why is it so wrong? if I dont regret then I will burn? why is it a sin to have safe and consensual sex? then our Creator shouldnt make it so enjoyable if its so illegal.
2007-10-19 14:18:53 · 16 answers · asked by baywatch 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Sex before marriage is a sin.
Ephesians 5:1-5 (HCSB, Holman Christian Standard Bible)
1 Therefore, be imitators of God, as dearly loved children. 2 And walk in love, as the Messiah also loved us and gave Himself for us, a sacrificial and fragrant offering to God. 3 But sexual immorality and any impurity or greed should not even be heard of among you, as is proper for saints. 4 And coarse and foolish talking or crude joking are not suitable, but rather giving thanks. 5 For know and recognize this: no sexually immoral or impure or greedy person, who is an idolater, has an inheritance in the kingdom of the Messiah and of God.
God made sex enjoyable only for a married husband and wife.
2007-10-19 14:38:44 · answer #1 · answered by tsc1976ers 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Nobody can tell you "you're going to hell" because you sinned. But obviously you know its wrong, since you asked this question. The best thing I can do is show you the word and lead you to your decision.
"Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a man commits are outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body. Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body." (1 Corinthians 6:18-20)
"Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral." (Hebrews 13:4)
2007-10-19 14:32:40 · answer #2 · answered by =)™ 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Why would you. Sex is a natural part of life. You see dogs having sex when they're a year old and you don't say anything do you. And in dog years he's seven!!!! DAMN!!!!! And to all the haters out there WE are technically considerd animals.
2007-10-19 14:48:54 · answer #3 · answered by Flintstoner 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"because birth control prevents eggs from being created."
And this shows that you aren't educated as you seem to be about the reproductive system, Birth control prevents the body from ovulating, not eggs from being created. A woman is born with all her eggs intact, they just mature one by one once she goes through puberty.
As for the morality of it, that is your call, babe.
2007-10-19 14:37:16 · answer #4 · answered by witchiebunny 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
What if, what if, what if.
Why don't you do yourself a favor, and study those passages of Scripture that talk about what sort of people will not inherit the kingdom of God?
Regardless of all the safeguards you undergo, you are still doing something outside the sanctity of marriage, where sex is condoned by God, who made sex. Your appeal that God should have done things differently judges God, and demonstrates your own self imposed ignorance.
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2007-10-19 14:31:27 · answer #5 · answered by Hogie 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It doesn't depend on what sin you do for if you go to Heaven or Hell. It depends on if you have asked Jesus into your heart to save you, take away your sins, and bring you to Heaven. That is the only way you can get to Heaven. It is not determined on your good or bad works, though adultery is wrong.
2007-10-19 14:29:20 · answer #6 · answered by ~Living4HIM~ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What is right and wrong is only opinion really.
Do what you feel comfortable with. You don't get punished by something like God for such a little deal. Adam and Eve had sex before marriage, but they didn't get punished for the sex part.
Sex is a wonderful way of communication between two people. Keep it up and enjoy it.
2007-10-19 14:25:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋
Its not about the sex, its about whom do you serve, the flesh and the devil or Jesus Christ. Choose whom you will serve this day. Remember what Joshua said, he put that before the people of Isreal, a blessing or a cursing. He said as for me and my house we will serve the Lord. Joshua 24:15, Now first you need to ask God to forgive you for what you have done. And he will if you have ever accepted him as your Lord and Saviour. Jesus said in John 3:3 Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God. Our sins seperate us from God, thankfully God sent his son (John3:16) to die on a cross and wash away our sins. If we accept the free gift of salvation then we can have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ and he will forgive our sins, cleanse us from all unrighteousness and give us the strength to overcome our weaknesses and temptations. If you want to serve Jesus then Pray this sinners Prayer believing in Jesus and having Faith that Jesus is who the Bible says he is,
just say Dear Jesus, I know and confess that I am sinner in need of salvation. I believe you died on a cross at calvery and arose from the grave to wash away my sins, I ask you right now to come into my heart and save me, I pray this Prayer believing in the name of Jesus Amen. If you prayed this prayer with a sincere heart you are now a child of God, rejoice that your name is written in the Lambs book of Life. Jesus will now send his Holy Spirit to come and live in your heart and guide you into all truth. If you have any questions just send me an email, God Bless YOU!!
2007-10-19 16:02:32 · answer #8 · answered by victor 7707 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's why I'm not Catholic any more. There's no more guilt for doing things that are fun. Cathloicism takes the fun out of everything and leaves you with an empty guilty feeling in your stomach.
Screw her and enjoy it.
2007-10-19 14:29:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
Don't worry about the whole Hell thing... it's an imaginary place.
Women are born with all their eggs. They are not created as time goes on in her life.
As long as you're both adults, knock your socks off and have some fun!
2007-10-19 14:28:05 · answer #10 · answered by Rapunzel XVIII 5 · 4⤊ 3⤋