What are some tips for a first date?

Question

I'm going on a first date with this boy that really likes me tomorrow night. I am not sure what we are doing as he is keeping it a surprise. We have been talking online and on the phone for about a month now and we met at a party. I am so nervous. How do I shake these fears? What should I do so that he finds me interesting? I am so afraid that he likes me through talking with me but won't like me when he hangs out with me and that will crush me.

Also what should I wear? I bought some jeans and I bought this black tank top with sequence all in the front. I have black uggs I could wear with this but should I not wear uggs? I think from the hints he has dropped that we are going to a corn maze so I don't think I should be dressy.

oh and I am 21 years old and so is he. I am not a big drinker but he is. If we do go to dinner should I order a drink? I mean when I go out with friends I usually do and I like to try different things. But I am afriad I might order something and I won't like it which doesn't bother me so much when I am with my friends.

Answer 1

Hm, don't be shy! It is my only advice, be opened and smile often, be charming - it will for sure make him interested in you more. :) You are 21, you shouldn't be timid! Wear what you think as good and don't worry about anything. :) Be cool!
Good luck :)

Answer 2

ok first of all safety tip::do not let him order a drink for you..y?well he can put some drugs int here and ect.You can bring a bottle of water but make sure he does not touch it,add drugs in it during you're int he restroom,ect.hav fun on you're first date!

Answer 3

just play it by ear, let him ask you if you want a drink, let him make a suggestion, what to eat and drink. But don;t get drunk, not good for 1st dates