HELP please?????

Question

ok there is a boy i have liked for about a year now and one day i seen him walking and i called him to my house.we started flirting for example i would take something out of his pocket and to get it insted of coming around me he would stand behind me and try to get what i had from behind me i liked it i could tell he did too .one night he asked me for a kiss b/c he was about to go home and i gave him a kiss. it was my first kiss \french kiss.now he comes to my house every day and he is even brave enough to face my dad by ringing the door bell. my dad doesnt like him but.... oh well we got into an arguement over the summer and after that he only came to my house about 4 times.he has became really distant. i ahve not seen him sence. ireally like him. . what should i do to get back on his good side he was like my closest male friend.but ive tryed to write a love not and cant find the courage to give it to him.To tell you the truth he make me weak and how can i let him know ihow i feel

with out making my sel look desperite. like i said when im around him all of my problems are gone i get weak and time just stops. i dont have his number i know where he lives and has his address.im only 14 he is 16 <but he is like my best friend

Answer 1

Here's the safest thing to do.

Tell him you miss him as a friend AND you miss the budding romance. And you want to know if you could get either or both of them back.

If he responds badly to that, you'll know you're lucky to be rid of him.