Ok well my boyfriend told me he was moving a long time ago to New Mexico and I never really thought it would be as soon as it seems. We have been going out since May 17th and November 17th would be our 7 month anniversary and my birthday is 10 days after he moves well anyway, I want to try a long distance relationship or if I should break up with him? I just need someone with experience also we are 13 and 14 years old so visiting is out of the question....
2007-10-19 13:42:24 · 24 answers · asked by Whatsername 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no harm in trying. It is much easier to maintain communication now that we have e-mail and text messaging and instant messaging. Just remember that you might grow apart if you live apart, and be willing to adjust to whatever comes your way. Talk to him about how you feel and see how he feels. Good luck.
2007-10-19 13:48:08 · answer #1 · answered by Mompoet 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Keep in touch, but if visiting is out of the question stick with being friends. If you want a relationship to really work well, the best way is to have personal interaction. If you really want to, you can try a long-distance relationship out and see how it goes.
2007-10-19 20:47:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
At your age, it is considered young, and so many things happen during that time.
You can ask yourself whether this is a guy you really want to explore further relations with? Is it worth the emails, phone calls?
It take a lot of trust and patience, and I'm talking from experience. I think you should give each other space to do your own thing, explore your experiences, but keep in touch. It can make things stronger, or at least remain good friends. :)
2007-10-19 20:48:12 · answer #3 · answered by lojix 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As bloody freaking hard as I know it seems, you have to let him go bud. I am sorry, but at 13, long distance relationships won't work. You'll meet other people, he'll meet other people.. and it will all become a big mess. You might end up cheating on him, and so may he on you.
I feel bad for you. It deffinetly sucks that he is moving =(
Stay strong bud.
2007-10-19 20:48:19 · answer #4 · answered by S L 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
FIRST--May 17 to November 17 is SIX months, not seven. Second, unless your family also wants to move, it is unlikely that you will see him again. As nice as he may be, it is not an age (13 and 14) where you need to pursue him. E-mail each other, call on the phone and stay in touch if you like, but odds are you will both start dating those nearer to each one's home.
2007-10-19 20:48:59 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
not to downsize your relationship, but long distance never really works out.
i would say sometimes it does. try it, don't have any expectations or too high of hopes, you will get crushed otherwise.
you will miss him, thats for sure. but hopefully you can definetly stay friends and it won't be too hard.
i dated a guy and he moved to cali and it was soooo hard we tried dating, thinking our love was impossible to beat, but we had to break it off, it was hurting us more to live without one another, and we are still friends to this day. i'm even getting married to someone else.
so hopefully you can work it out, and who knows! you may pick up where you left off!
good luck hunny!
2007-10-19 20:46:45 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you like him, find out first how he feels about moving away. Ask him if he wants to keep in touch. I think this is a wait and see situation, but just be sure to talk it over with him. If he can't give you an answer, date other guys.
2007-10-19 20:50:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
At your age, it would be tough. But it is possible.
I was in a long distance relationship for over a year. I move back to be with her in a few days. So it is possible to make it work.
2007-10-19 20:46:14 · answer #8 · answered by KemPer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can stay friends with him. It will possibly fizzle out but that doesn't mean to say you won't meet up again in a few years. you are far to young to stay with the same boyfriend for ever. you will both have lots of friends in the future.
2007-10-19 20:50:28 · answer #9 · answered by jennifer h 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
MY Dear
you are very small to make boy friend . In the future you will make alot of relationship with boys and wait
KIMO 105
2007-10-19 20:48:50 · answer #10 · answered by KIMOOOO 105 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋