Ok so im talking to my best friend and she says that we should stay single until we find the right one but i told her that we have to date to find the right one
SO what yuo guys think??
Stay single to find Mr. Right
or
Date to find Mr. Right
2007-10-19 12:40:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to date. How are you going to find "the right one" if you're not out there meeting people? He's just not going to show up at your doorstep. How are you even going to know if he's "the right one" if you don't have anything to compare it to?? I don't know how old you are, but you're probably going to kiss a few frogs before you find your prince charming.
Personally, I don't think there's "a right one"....there are people who you may be more compatible with than others.
2007-10-19 12:46:05 · answer #1 · answered by Cheryl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its much more reasonable to date and find out what types of guys you are into before even considering finding the right one. I mean you can go through several guys. But if you put them all on the spot about rather they are the right one or not then you would only be setting yourself up for failure. I say if there is a really genuwine interest and things go well enough on like 5 or so dates, then you should open your mind up to someone being the right one. But don't have the right one mentality if its only the first date. That would only put alot of pressure on the guy and yourself.
P.S. Date to have fun too. Because some guys are very fun to hang out and do different things with. Other than sexually. So just have fun and probably make a few friends too. But don't look for the one if you aren't even sure what you want in a guy first. And waiting around for any right one is a might ridiculous. Unless your friend is sticky paper for men, to be drawn to. Waiting around won't get her anything but bitter.
2007-10-19 19:57:02 · answer #2 · answered by Cursed_Romantic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it's pretty hard to find out if that person will ever be the "right one." I stayed single for a long time, dated someone for four years, and then realized that things were never going to work out the way we wanted them too. I dated a bit after that, and have been with my current boyfriend for over 2 years. Is he the "right one?" Only time will tell, but it never hurts to give someone a chance. Good luck!
2007-10-19 19:45:49 · answer #3 · answered by Shenanigans 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres a difference between dating and being in a relationship. you can "date" multiple people at a time as long as you are not committed to them. sometimes the people you try to date and dont like at first will grow on you and out of nowhere you fall madly in love with them. this has happened to me a couple times. chances are, first impressions arent that accurate. date around, and after a month if youre really not that into him, then move on. just dont commit until you really think you have found the right one, but you have to open up and give these guys a chance!
2007-10-19 19:46:09 · answer #4 · answered by niugirl1114 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a better chance of having a successful outcome by doing things your way as opposed to your friend's way. I don't know anyone who met "the one" for them their first and only time being out there socially, in fact, it usually takes a few glaring wrong ones before we're definitely sure what we DON'T want. Until we have that (usually painful) experience, we will typically fall for most anything as long as they "look good" to us.
2007-10-19 19:48:16 · answer #5 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay single
2007-10-19 19:45:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your right date to find the right one
your friend wrong
2007-10-19 19:43:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gota date to find out what your in for.
2007-10-19 19:43:39 · answer #8 · answered by bryang702 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the right one wont just fly to u HELLO!!! and plus how do u know its the right one???
2007-10-19 19:44:03 · answer #9 · answered by Ginger86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋