This girl I like told me how cute this actor is, but he doesn't look anything like me?

Question

She said he had really great great hair and she loves guys with blond hair and blue eyes, but I have dark hair and brown eyes.

Does this mean there's no way she likes me? We're not going out and I haven't told her how I feel. I want to, but I don't want to waste my time or look like an idiot.

Answer 1

All it means for certain is that she finds that actor attractive. Before you put yourself through all sorts of anxiety for no reason, ask yourself the following question: Can't you think of at least one girl (actress or not, it doesn't matter) of every hair type and color that you find attractive? (One blonde, one brunette, a redhead, and maybe some hottie with jet black hair). And if that's true, do you like this girl you're talking about any less because of it? Everyone is capable of finding all sorts of people attractive, but it doesn't diminish those we really connect with one bit in our eyes...and if that can be true for you, it's true for her, too. So don't worry. Just go find out what's really up with her, and good luck.

Answer 2

I'm sure there is an actress or musician that you may like that looks nothing like this girl. Its possible to like more than one type of person. Just because she pointed out what she likes, that does not automatically mean that you are something that she doesn't like.

Answer 3

nooo, that doesn't mean that there's no way she could like you. she may like you for loads of other reasons, looks especially as general as that, are not important. having things in common, personality etc are WAY more important than the colour of your hair/eyes/skin.

Answer 4

its possible that she's telling the truth and she really thinks that, but its also possible that she's just telling u this to confuse u. look for signs and keep hoping!!