I personally will not date any guy with children; small or otherwise, but that's just me. What say you?
2007-10-19 12:10:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trucky: Don't take it personally. I dont date guys with children and thats my right to decide for myself. I don't have children nor do I want any.
2007-10-19 12:24:46 · update #1
I prefer no children, but if a certain girl has everything I am looking for and has a kid also...I would consider dating her!!
2007-10-19 12:15:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You say "over 25" How old are you yourself ?
Do you have kids ? do you want kids ? do you like kids ?
If you meet the man you really like to live with, then I am certain you will accept his kids if any.
You cannot advance a statment like you do without actualy having met someone having kids.
Assume you start dating me and wanted to get serious, would the fact that I have a daughter change the way I would treat you ?
I have a grown up daughter and I would not mind meeting a woman who has children. 2 maximum tho !
Trust me that people with kids are more serious in a relationship for obvious reasons.
2007-10-19 12:21:21 · answer #2 · answered by Trucky 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-21 10:38:45 · answer #3 · answered by lisbon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm personally not trying to go that route again. i dated a guy with a crazy baby momma and that's no fun to deal with. even without that it was hard to leave him when things were basically over b/c i was attached to the kid. i guess every situation is unique though, so i don't think that that one factor would completely make me rule someone out.
2007-10-19 12:22:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend has two great daughters. They're tomboys and a lot of fun to play with. The four of us go hiking together often.
I had a girlfriend with two boys. They were okay, but on their way to becoming juvenile delinquents. As she was competing with her ex-husband for their affection, she was reluctant to be the parent they needed her to be.
I think dating someone with kids is okay as long as you like their parenting style.
2007-10-19 12:25:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't mind a woman with kids at all. Of course, I have 3 of my own so why would I? I love being a dad and wouldn't mind being a stepdad.
2007-10-22 11:18:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would have said the same --- my children are all independent one with children of her own --- then i met my lady and im prepared to start all over again --- dont keep a closed mind you just dont know who you will meet that will throw everything topsy turvy ---- best wishes
2007-10-19 12:15:57 · answer #7 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋