how the hell do u ask a girl our and some other advices pls
2007-10-19 09:10:38 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't know her then get to know her before you ask her out on date (it will sound creppy if you ask her out in the first place), but if you know her just ask her "would you like to go out" and have tons of confidence, and if she turns you down oh well its just a 2 letter word "NO" there's plenty of fish in the sea.
2007-10-19 09:16:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Advice? Don't try to be cool and make an butt of yourself. Be yourself, be polite, open the door for her, don't spend all night talking about yourself but instead ask about her...her job, family, likes, dislikes, movies, food, etc. When you talk about yourself, don't brag...be honest. Most women also like a guy with a sense of humor. However, no racist , vulgar or stupid jokes. If anything, talk about humorous things that happended to you, even embarrassing things. If you're willing to tell about something embarrassing you did, it will put her at ease. Don't tell her about something totally stupid you did, you don't want to come off as a bonehead. If you can talk to her first, then asking her out won't be a problem, she may even ask you. Whatever, be a gentleman and I hope you know how. If she turns you down, don't get mad or show your stupidity, just say "That's ok" and leave it at that. Good luck.
2007-10-19 09:20:10 · answer #2 · answered by bikinkawboy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WELL, my friend, that is a very broad question, and differnt groups of people do things very differently. Here are some options:
If you know her well:
Go up to her, ask her how her does was and stuff, then ask her out.
Slip her a note and tell her how much she means to you and ask her out
Ask a friend to find out if she likes you and then ask her out
Sniff around and try to find out if she likes you, or ask her if she likes some of her guy friends or even some of yours, then ask her out.
If you dont know her that well:
Get to know her and ask her out
ask one of her friends to find out
slip her a note
...i think you get the picture. basically just be confident if you dont know her, or be cute and romantic if you guys are good friends. If she says no, chances are you'll keep liking her if you really do, but if not just move on! Eventually, SOMEONE will say yes.
Good luck, man.
2007-10-19 09:16:29 · answer #3 · answered by Wesjtay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be casual. Be confident (but NOT arrogant). Be specific - don't say "sometime." You should say, "I was wondering if you'd like to have dinner with me on Friday night" (or whatever other event you want her to join you for). That covers the casual, the confident and the specific - you're letting her know that it occurred to you that spending some time together would be nice, but you're not coming across as desperate/begging; you'll sound like you don't have any reason to think she'd turn you down without sounding like a jerk; and you're handling it like a man who knows what he wants.
2007-10-19 09:27:37 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be suave, don't be to forward. In some cases flattery will get you pretty far but don't be insincere about it. Be Real, phony people are a big turn off. And Most Important, try to be a FRIEND first - that gives you time to get to know the person you are interested in.
2007-10-19 09:16:22 · answer #5 · answered by femalepit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. My name is (insert your name). You wanna go out?
Don't make things complicated.
Of course, if you have reason to suspect that a given girl will turn you down, advance gifts of flowers, candy, a week for two in the Bahamas or a Mercedes can't hurt.
2007-10-19 09:13:33 · answer #6 · answered by r_moulton76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get that straightforward and say, "will you go out with me". i tried that and it never worked. NEVER.
ask if she wants to hang out sometime. if she says...
YES - awesomeness. hang out, and see how it feels. this is the key point that tells you whether you REALLY want to ask this girl out or not. if you want to win this girl, be sure that you can talk to her about pretty much anything, and you can be yourself around her. if the first one goes well, after a few weeks ask again. most likely she will say yes, and before long you will find this becoming a normal routine...and you can either wait at least - AT LEAST - three months before you ask her out...or wait for her to take the shot. either one is sure to get good results.
NO - ........let's just say the truth: she doesn't like you. but the world will never run out of girls who are tailored for you.
2007-10-19 09:15:26 · answer #7 · answered by Cherrrrrrr101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that many girls laugh at guys who are honest and respectful - usually they find such attention flattering. But even if she does, you have nothing to be ashamed of.
If she's a girl you know well, try something like this: "I enjoy your company very much and I would like to go out with you. Would you like to come to... with me?"
If she's a girl you don't know well then I suggest that you go out as a group first, but be honest about why you want to do that: "I know we don't know one another well, but I can't stop looking at you, and I'd like to get to know you better. Is it possible that we might go out together with some friends?"
2007-10-19 09:24:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start a friendly conversation, make sure she is not in a relationship, and then simply ask her if SHE would like to out and get to kno eachother a litltle more. Do not pressure her and just be urself..
2007-10-19 09:15:17 · answer #9 · answered by Mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a certain activity like dinner or a movie and a day in mind, when she is by herself say "will you go to a movie with me on friday night?" and wait for an answer.
2007-10-19 09:16:02 · answer #10 · answered by a flautist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋