Me and my boyfreind are sixteen,
and we've been doing it only since last week,
And we used protection, Only, it was at his nans house, only now im so embaressed as his nan found the condom rapper on the floor!
im screwed! apparently she saw it, and told my boyfreind she was dissapointed, but now apparently she was okay, and when i rang earlier she was okay with me down the phone, but i don't think she likes me anymore because of this, im so embaressed!.. it was only my first time last week!.. and he picked nearly all the rapper up, she must have been pritty clever too see the amount he left and figure out it was a condom rapper, i feel so bad, but then i don't because it's natural and me and my boyfreind are at the age now anyway....
what should i do?
i don't want to bring it up in front of her,
but i want to do something, im worried she might think im some sort of whore and tryed too force my bf to do it!
HELP! x
2007-10-19 08:42:15 · 12 answers · asked by [♥x_Zoeey_x♥] 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
pretend nothing happens. you can accuse your bf cheating on you with someone else. LOL. just kidding. you can ask his nans how to avoid having sex. claim that you are too young and your bf is too cute (of course, she thinks that too), you have a hard time avoid it. ask her for help. at least she sees that you are embarrassed. if you don't talk about it, she will assume that you are going to do that again.
2007-10-19 08:48:44 · answer #1 · answered by Carborane 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Shes maybe just as embarrassed as you!! And doesn't no how to approach you regarding this issue however it's just one of those things I'm afraid that you no that she knows and hopefully will never get mentioned again.
She will also remember that she was young once and maybe experienced a similar thing. So try not to worry too much and enjoy your one to one time with your fella!..
2007-10-19 08:52:44 · answer #2 · answered by Foxie 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say that if you feel like this then you may be old enough to have sex but you are not mature enough. However if your boyfriends nan is ok with you on the phone then just carry on as normal.
2007-10-19 08:49:49 · answer #3 · answered by thecat 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ignore it. His Nan was young once too remember and the chances are, a bit of a goer herself.
So relax. Act like it never happen and carry on regardless.
2007-10-19 08:47:06 · answer #4 · answered by Felidae 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry his Nan has probably forgotten about it, and so should you, you haven't done anything wrong. If anything she is probably glad you are sensible enough to use protection. Good for you.
2007-10-19 09:00:17 · answer #5 · answered by Bezza 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Everybody does it and at least you were sensible even his nan wouldve been at it at one stage if still not lol just forget it and act as nothing has happen
2007-10-19 08:53:46 · answer #6 · answered by Paul R 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just act like nothing ever happened. I wouldn't bring it up if she doesn't mention it. And next time pick up all the pieces of the wrapper. LOL
2007-10-19 08:48:48 · answer #7 · answered by hot06tc 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
just brass neck it and why at his nans come on girl lol
2007-10-19 08:56:48 · answer #8 · answered by big_yin 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
LOL - just brave it out!
It was worse for me - his mother found my contraceptive pills - and removed them! (I was staying in the spare room whilst my family were on holiday)
Not sure what good she thought doing that would be though - maybe she wanted a preggy 16 year old on her hands!
2007-10-19 08:48:19 · answer #9 · answered by Hedge Witch 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Major cringe.
Dont mention it, unless she does.
Good luck xxxxxxxx
2007-10-19 10:39:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋