What would you do?

Question

what would you all do if you walked in and caught your so called best friend with your fiancee, who you are engaged too and plans are set for July 19, 2008. Kill them or set them on fire, I am serious. I have know this cow of whore for a lifetime. We grew up together, she was my maid of honor. They don't know I saw them. I went by my house, To pick up some things, we were planning on moving in together....tomorrow (Sat). If you are wondering I am at the library. I called my mom and she said to leave it alone. But, someone please help me before I end up on Snapped. That show on Oxygen. where women kill their loved ones. Should I drive around, cool down and then come back or should I just go in with my Louiville Slugger and where they're azz out. I am serious, someone please help me???????????????????????????????????????????????????????/

Thanks so much everyone. I really appreciate your help. I went over there, and do you know they have the audicity to act like nothing happened. I asked to see her outside and I F------ her azz up. As for him I broke out his car windows and know I am going to call my brothers to F--- his azz up......

Answer 1

Murder is not an option.
Revenge is a wasted emotion.

Of course, break the engagement, and then move on.

Good luck!

Answer 2

I've been in a similiar situation when I was much younger. Yes, you're mad and go over how and why this happened to you. Yes, you envision thoughts of revenge. The reality is that if your fiancee loved AND respected you, he would not have considered cheating on you with your so called "best friend" (or anyone for that matter!). And, if she liked AND respected you, she would not have entertained messing around with your fiancee, regardless of who initiated it. My advice to you is to confront them calmly and rationally (after you've calmed down--you know how long it takes you to get to that point), and let them know what you saw. They're either going to deny it, or shove it in your face--at this point, this should not be entertained by you--only that you know what you witnessed, and it's over. They are not worth you getting out-of-control and doing something that you will regret and that will drastically change your life (like going to jail and/or getting charged with domestic violence). You will be glad you saw them for what they are now, instead of getting married to this loser, and maintaining a so called friendship with someone who really doesn't give a sh*t about you. There are some things that are unforgiveable, and this is one of them. It's time to close this chapter, and write a new one with people who will respect you.

Answer 3

Considering the fact that you are questioning on whether or not to harm them at this point means that 1. You WONT do anything harmful 2. You would have already done it as soon as you have saw them if you had any intention whatsoever.
Just cool down, take a drive, smoke some grass, and then confront them later.
"revenge is a meal best served cold"

Answer 4

Call him on the phone. Or call her. Tell whoever you reach what you saw. Cancel the moving in together. Stop planning the wedding. And give yourself 2 weeks to grieve.

If you both want to try - get counseling. If the counseling is successful - start planning the wedding again in six months.

Do not start a life together with this between you.

Answer 5

same thing happened to me but i was already married. i stayed wih the guy and now we have a baby. I love my baby but i regret getting back with him and now my life sucks. I'm still going to couseling but i can't get over it. it's been a year (on my birthday) People like that are heartless. Dont go on with the wedding you will be miserable. Do notget married with that man! you will remember about this incident everyday of your life and you will feel more anger than anything towards him. I hate your bf and fiance and i don't even know them.

Answer 6

Remember most states have the death penalty.....

I had the same thing happen about 17 yrs ago. I wanted to kill both of them. I didn't. I confronted him, we fought and I left him. Moved out the next morning. HE'S NOT WORTH IT!!! Neither one is worth losing yourself over. You will hurt for
awhile but you will end up stronger and better...eventually. As for her, obviously she wasn't as good of a friend as you thought. The beauty of friendships is that you make the choice. Eventually you need to forgive both of them...just don't forget.

Answer 7

Just dump ur fiancee and break up with your friend. Dont hurt them or YOU WILL B THE ONE IN TROUBLE! you'll end up with a hell of a long sentence in prison and ull wish u didn't do it. You shud stick with your loyal friends and find a new love ull get over it in time!Best wishes & good luck JAIME x

Answer 8

Call off the wedding and get a new friend. If you have items already there, get them out, but keep your cool, if you need to, have your mom or another friend go with you to get your things to help you keep your cool.

Answer 9

None of your intended activities would be productive.

If you find your significant other has been unfaithful, the answer is simple.

Walk away and stop seeing that person. It's over, done, finished, zip, nada, gone.

No action you can take will bring it back or make it right again.

Move on.

Answer 10

oh no...sad stuff.
Just walk in and quietly get your things out of there and if you disturb them say Im sorry I was just coming to get my things.
Its over anyways Right? You can be heartbroken inside but dont go all hostile..Jail? Or move on? You should Move on..He did!!