i was good friends with this girl i lived in the same town n then i moved away n 4 some reason things changed- i moved to oxford whilst she stayed at 25 still living with her mum and dad in a small town called carterton.
She recently got back with her boyfiend and then one night went out to oxford n she decided to go off with another guy instead of going back to her boyfriends...i came home on my own after she n these guys left me in the club...the next morning i awoke to a loud banging on the door it was her boyfriend he walked in towered over me and started swearing at me yelling where the **** is she slag! I have only met him once before briefly n luckily another girl i live with came running down the stairs thankgod becasue i think he was going to hit me!!! I have called the police over this i was in absolute tears really terrified...the girl is still seeing him and she never apologies neither has her boyfirend who has been arrested for harrassment..i have cut them both off
2007-10-19 07:33:03 · 47 answers · asked by racheal m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ABSOLUTELY you did the right thing!!
Your friend needs to at least acknowledge that she knows and agrees that what she and her boyfriend did to you was not right! She might not know how to broach the subject ... but she needs to, if she expects to make things right with you.
2007-10-19 07:40:55 · answer #1 · answered by Jewels 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey! you did the right thing! She obviously does not care about your well being because she would not have left you at the club for a guy! in the first place. Secondly, as soon as she found out that her boyfriend verbally attacked you, she should have at least made him apologize. Im sorry that you had to experience that. The bottom line is, she is not a good friend. You are better off making new friends. Take care! and don't feel bad about your decision. It was the right one!
2007-10-19 07:40:30 · answer #2 · answered by Chynah D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing. I would have done the same. It was quite disrespectful of him to come into your home and do that to you. You would think that they would have the decency to call and appologize to you for it. A typical man for you though....always acting before he has knowledge of what is going on. Don't let it keep bothering you. It is not worth it. They are definitely not worth your energy used to worry about it. Try to let it go and forget about it. If you ever see them again, hold your head high and walk right past them without a word. If they speak, just keep walking like they never said a word. Maybe they will grow up one day.
2007-10-19 07:40:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea u dont need people like that. If she was a good friend, even a good person 1) she wudnt cheat on her bf, 2) she would appologise for him doing that, 3) she shudnt b so stupid to be seeing sum1 like that cause he sounds like a real ****. Oh and she shouldnt have just left u in the club.
Your better off without her honestly cause I knew sum1 like that 2 and she was my best friend and im sooo glad I cut her off.
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2016-10-04 04:17:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that for your sake you have done the right thing. I think that the boy friend should apologize but I'm guessing it'd be a waste to even think that he might consider from what I can tell. Your better off with neither of them. :/ Your safety isn't worth a patchy friendship.
2007-10-19 07:42:27 · answer #6 · answered by imablondieru2 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Best thing ever... cut them off. I once almost got jumped by an X psycho boyfriend and the xic continue to see him, so I just dropped her friendship. People like that live for drama.
2007-10-19 07:38:46 · answer #7 · answered by mastermind delinquent 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's some story... I would definetly cut the both of them off.. He was way outta line in storming into your house looking for his slutty girlfriend.. You are better off not hanging around the two of them. .I'm sure all they do is fight and cause a scene wherever they go.. It's just too much uninvited "drama". Make some more mature friends and have a good time w/o the drama ! Good luck and be well...
2007-10-19 07:37:49 · answer #8 · answered by pebblespro 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
wow! that's alot to take in.I think you really didn't have a choice, your life was being threaten in a way.I think I would of called the police too(that would be scary).It seems you are doing the best for your own life.I would cut them off until the they said they we're sorry to somehow make you comfortable around them again.When that happens Id still be Ifie when it comes to being around him.I agree with what you had to do and In my understanding I think you did the right thing.!
2007-10-19 07:55:06 · answer #9 · answered by kolean_07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you should definitely stay away from both of them. It sounds like your friend has headed down the wrong path and may be with an abusive boyfriend. It's pretty rude that she didn't apologize about the whole situation, which makes me believe that she's a little self-centered.
2007-10-19 07:37:43 · answer #10 · answered by Skelli 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
While it would be nice if you could be a good influence on her it sounds like she's not in a place to listen to your influence at the moment. Additionally her self-destructive life sounds like it is also endangering others around her. So, yes, you did the right thing at the time.
2007-10-19 07:40:49 · answer #11 · answered by Carl P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋