I went out with a girl for 3 years, ups and down but it was nothing but amazing!! true love it felt most of the time, and she did alot for me. but when she told her parents about me, they said no and her mum even slapped her, because she kept saying she wants 2 marry me, they didnt agree because i was much younger than her and i didnt have a real job. anyways she told me it wont happen, and cried and cried, and i cud tell she truly was hurt. anyways she stopped contacting me for months, i got nothing!! not even a miss call from her.....anways 1 day i asked her lets meet and go cinema for the last time, we went and even kissed!!!!!!!!
going home i cried in her arms saying i will miss u,she cried aswel, but after that day i didnt hear from her! its beens 2 months now but still nothing, whats going on???????
we went out for years, and i knew she cared alot,she cried alot if anything happened to me, what happened? it dont make sense to me
2007-10-19 07:32:03 · 8 answers · asked by sugarguyguy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also her dad is on depression tablets and her mum has high blood pressure, and she said she can't hurt them anymore!!! but why didnt she see if im ok, but cry and cry!! i dont wana contact her because its been months...but whats going on? I dont understand
PS: shes 25 and I'm 21,
2007-10-19 07:32:30 · update #1
what the hell dude , you are 21 if you like her take some action , go talk to her parents , get some balls man, even after that it doesnt workout than its different but then you will have tried whatever possible things you could ave done to get her , you are giving up without a fight , winners never quit and Quitters never WIN , so go ahead !! dont loose this oppurtunity and regert the rest of your life jus because you donta have the balls to do it now.
2007-10-19 07:39:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok you arent that much younger then her. she is an adult and she cant even make her own decisions. she cares about her parents and doesnt want a choice she makes to effect them. she doesnt want to be cause of anything else bad that may happen to them. there is nothing you can really do. i mean she has her familys best interest above hers. trust me i know how that goes. she would rather them be happy then herself be happy. i'm the same way. best thing for you to do is call her and see how things are going. maybe ask her out again. the only thing you can hope for at the moment is to just be her friend until the situation changes.
2007-10-19 07:38:53 · answer #2 · answered by whisper_in_the_wind1186 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she has deeper issues than you know. I know it is difficult but you need to move on. If its not going to work then its not going to work and you need to get on with your life. There are other women out there just dying to meet you so you need to get out and meet some new faces. You never know the right one may be out there waiting for you and you will never know until you let go of this last relationship and start looking into the future
2007-10-19 07:37:41 · answer #3 · answered by jenniferk5683 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes people dont mean to but they hurt you alot an the best thing to do is keep those memories close and try your hardest to move on.....i cant say it works cause im in a similar sitch....24 dating 22 year old for the past 6 years and now he wants to play the field and expects me to wait for him to come back.....life isn't always fair but love is just firing synapses in the brain so you will have that feeling back
2007-10-19 07:37:49 · answer #4 · answered by Fish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am muslim and my bf is american if im truly in love with him no one and nothing can stop me from being w/ him.I love and respect my parents but i have to make my life and find my love and make my own mistakes i wont let them live my life 4 me. Does that answer ur questions?
2007-10-19 07:37:30 · answer #5 · answered by Ginger86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on if she is wiling to give up her happiness so easily .her parents are too controlling and unless she wants to be a grown up and make a stand to her family there is nothing you can do
2007-10-19 07:39:17 · answer #6 · answered by karen w 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your story is sad, but you need to be realistic and stop being selfish. obviously she has her priorities and has made the decision that her family is more important to her right now than a relationship.
she's older than you and have different needs and expectations. you need to grow up and move on.
2007-10-19 07:37:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She loves her parents more than you.
Let her go.
2007-10-19 07:38:41 · answer #8 · answered by Fred F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋